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ToadOfSteel
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21 Apr 2009, 1:34 am

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NOW GO TAKE A CUP OF SHUT UP AND DO NOT SAY ANOTHER WORD TO ME UNLESS YOU TAKE A TRIP TO ENGLAND AND LEARN HOW TO PROPERLY SPEAK THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE, I POSTED HERE TO GET SOME HELP TO SEE TO IT THAT IF MY GIRLFRIEND DOES WRONG SHE WILL TELL THE TRUTH EVERY SINGLE TIME BUT I AM GETTING AN ARMFUL OF IDIOTS WHO ARE THINKING THAT THEY KNOW THE SITUATION AS IF THEY KNEW THE HOLY BIBLE BETTER THAN GOD HIMSELF.


You do realize that merle is the moderator trained in the work of Benito Mussolini, right? I would *suggest* that you refrain from anything overt like that in the future...



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21 Apr 2009, 3:03 am

RPM, I advise you to knock it off - you're completely out of line here. If you want no critical responses, then ask that this thread be moved to the Haven for you. But that's no way to treat any member of WP, especially when you are the one soliciting the feedback in the first place.

You mentioned once, in your first post, that you both wanted to get married... that a question was raised as to her perspective has drawn such a reaction from you leaves me a little more curious now about your own responses when placed in a stressful situation. Avoidance is a powerful instinct; so is anger. The question is valid - I suggest you take a little time and reflect on what is meant instead of lashing out.


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21 Apr 2009, 5:58 am

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Have you thought maybe she does not want to get married and so continues to do something that keeps her from being 'mature' enough to get married?

Merle


Please read everything before you assume things.

My girlfriend actually wants to get married someday, she even talked about it before me and her officially became boyfriend/girlfriend.

Me and my girlfriend have talked about it repeatedly, i've talked to her Grandmother about it, i've talked to her Aunt about it, her whole family knows she wants to get married someday.

I wish people would read everything that is being said before assuming things, if anyone is not paying attention to everything I have said, then you obviously don't know how to speak English very well.


perhaps it is you that are not reading everything. You say she lies. How do you know she is not lying about getting married?

Merle


The only things she has been lying about is whenever she has done something wrong and then denied it.

You are still failing to read everything, not to mention you are putting your nose where it doesn't belong.
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We are puting up different senarios to try and assess the situation depending on your replys, this is the only thing we can do. As you said, we're not there and we try to collect as much info as possible to make an accurate evaluation and then come with suggestions we hope can work.

To me it seems she has some kind of metal sensitivety against other people emotions or mayby a fear of loud noices, I don't know, I can only guess. But obviously she feels that lying is better than facing someones reaction.


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21 Apr 2009, 9:02 am

WHY DID I EVEN BOTHER POSTING IN HERE WHEN ALL I GET ARE MESSAGES FROM THOSE WHO THINK THEY KNOW EVERYTHING WHEN THEY ARE SO FULL OF POOP THAT THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO GET ALL THAT POOP INTO THE TOILET AND CHOOSE TO SPEW IT FORTH FROM THEIR MOUTH.