24 Jan 2007, 11:24 pm
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
andy1976uk wrote:
Hmmm, Texan Buddhists, now I've heard everything. 
Gotta agree though, the only path to happiness is pretty much completely telling yourself you don't give a f--- and actually meaning it. I look at myself, understand why I'm single, and understand that its unrealistic that I'm going to find much of anything as long as I am *who* I am. Yeah life is short and its supposedly a one-time but I look at how many people's lives and potentials are stifled horribly by society, health conditions, or even just life circumstances that lead em straight down the gutter and I realize that its really not that big a deal if you can't have or be all the things you dreamed of as a kid or in your younger adult years.
My advice for Ken - stay single, seriously. If you think about it and you think about genetics - would you really want to bring someone else into this world who'll have a great chance of being a lot like you and having to live his/her life from day 1 and feel all the things you felt as a kid, go through all the things that probably crushed you back then which you'd never want to revisit, and have to grow up with the same kind of bitterness that a lot of aspies do? I'm almost glad that women have this sort of eugenic radar in their heads because I really think it'll save me from myself.
Agree with you. It is a real pain though to accept that you will never have what most people consider a normal life... is why suicide is always around the corner when the buddhist approach starts failing.
I don't wish my flawed genes on any human being.
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24 Jan 2007, 11:25 pm
24 Jan 2007, 11:28 pm
Panik wrote:
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
andy1976uk wrote:
Hmmm, Texan Buddhists, now I've heard everything.
Gotta agree though, the only path to happiness is pretty much completely telling yourself you don't give a f--- and actually meaning it. I look at myself, understand why I'm single, and understand that its unrealistic that I'm going to find much of anything as long as I am *who* I am. Yeah life is short and its supposedly a one-time but I look at how many people's lives and potentials are stifled horribly by society, health conditions, or even just life circumstances that lead em straight down the gutter and I realize that its really not that big a deal if you can't have or be all the things you dreamed of as a kid or in your younger adult years.
My advice for Ken - stay single, seriously. If you think about it and you think about genetics - would you really want to bring someone else into this world who'll have a great chance of being a lot like you and having to live his/her life from day 1 and feel all the things you felt as a kid, go through all the things that probably crushed you back then which you'd never want to revisit, and have to grow up with the same kind of bitterness that a lot of aspies do? I'm almost glad that women have this sort of eugenic radar in their heads because I really think it'll save me from myself.
Agree with you. It is a real pain though to accept that you will never have what most people consider a normal life... is why suicide is always around the corner when the buddhist approach starts failing.
Suicide is illogical, cowardly and selfish. It's the kind of thing NTs would do. Aspies shouldn't even have the word in their vocabularies.
24 Jan 2007, 11:29 pm
24 Jan 2007, 11:30 pm
24 Jan 2007, 11:30 pm
andy1976uk wrote:
Panik wrote:
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
andy1976uk wrote:
Hmmm, Texan Buddhists, now I've heard everything.
Gotta agree though, the only path to happiness is pretty much completely telling yourself you don't give a f--- and actually meaning it. I look at myself, understand why I'm single, and understand that its unrealistic that I'm going to find much of anything as long as I am *who* I am. Yeah life is short and its supposedly a one-time but I look at how many people's lives and potentials are stifled horribly by society, health conditions, or even just life circumstances that lead em straight down the gutter and I realize that its really not that big a deal if you can't have or be all the things you dreamed of as a kid or in your younger adult years.
My advice for Ken - stay single, seriously. If you think about it and you think about genetics - would you really want to bring someone else into this world who'll have a great chance of being a lot like you and having to live his/her life from day 1 and feel all the things you felt as a kid, go through all the things that probably crushed you back then which you'd never want to revisit, and have to grow up with the same kind of bitterness that a lot of aspies do? I'm almost glad that women have this sort of eugenic radar in their heads because I really think it'll save me from myself.
Agree with you. It is a real pain though to accept that you will never have what most people consider a normal life... is why suicide is always around the corner when the buddhist approach starts failing.
Suicide is illogical, cowardly and selfish. It's the kind of thing NTs would do. Aspies shouldn't even have the word in their vocabularies.
Well when one gets really depressed it seems to be the ONLY way to end the suffering. If I could find a painless was to do it I would.
24 Jan 2007, 11:31 pm
24 Jan 2007, 11:31 pm
24 Jan 2007, 11:33 pm
24 Jan 2007, 11:33 pm
andy1976uk wrote:
Panik wrote:
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
andy1976uk wrote:
Hmmm, Texan Buddhists, now I've heard everything.
Gotta agree though, the only path to happiness is pretty much completely telling yourself you don't give a f--- and actually meaning it. I look at myself, understand why I'm single, and understand that its unrealistic that I'm going to find much of anything as long as I am *who* I am. Yeah life is short and its supposedly a one-time but I look at how many people's lives and potentials are stifled horribly by society, health conditions, or even just life circumstances that lead em straight down the gutter and I realize that its really not that big a deal if you can't have or be all the things you dreamed of as a kid or in your younger adult years.
My advice for Ken - stay single, seriously. If you think about it and you think about genetics - would you really want to bring someone else into this world who'll have a great chance of being a lot like you and having to live his/her life from day 1 and feel all the things you felt as a kid, go through all the things that probably crushed you back then which you'd never want to revisit, and have to grow up with the same kind of bitterness that a lot of aspies do? I'm almost glad that women have this sort of eugenic radar in their heads because I really think it'll save me from myself.
Agree with you. It is a real pain though to accept that you will never have what most people consider a normal life... is why suicide is always around the corner when the buddhist approach starts failing.
Suicide is illogical, cowardly and selfish. It's the kind of thing NTs would do. Aspies shouldn't even have the word in their vocabularies.
Yes. I know that Andy.
24 Jan 2007, 11:34 pm
24 Jan 2007, 11:36 pm
Starbuline wrote:
andy1976uk wrote:
Panik wrote:
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
andy1976uk wrote:
Hmmm, Texan Buddhists, now I've heard everything.
Gotta agree though, the only path to happiness is pretty much completely telling yourself you don't give a f--- and actually meaning it. I look at myself, understand why I'm single, and understand that its unrealistic that I'm going to find much of anything as long as I am *who* I am. Yeah life is short and its supposedly a one-time but I look at how many people's lives and potentials are stifled horribly by society, health conditions, or even just life circumstances that lead em straight down the gutter and I realize that its really not that big a deal if you can't have or be all the things you dreamed of as a kid or in your younger adult years.
My advice for Ken - stay single, seriously. If you think about it and you think about genetics - would you really want to bring someone else into this world who'll have a great chance of being a lot like you and having to live his/her life from day 1 and feel all the things you felt as a kid, go through all the things that probably crushed you back then which you'd never want to revisit, and have to grow up with the same kind of bitterness that a lot of aspies do? I'm almost glad that women have this sort of eugenic radar in their heads because I really think it'll save me from myself.
Agree with you. It is a real pain though to accept that you will never have what most people consider a normal life... is why suicide is always around the corner when the buddhist approach starts failing.
Suicide is illogical, cowardly and selfish. It's the kind of thing NTs would do. Aspies shouldn't even have the word in their vocabularies.
Well when one gets really depressed it seems to be the ONLY way to end the suffering. If I could find a painless was to do it I would.
Yeah, until a few days later. It passes, always. I've been suicidal on dozens of occassions, I don't even want to try and quantify how many times I've been there. I've even attempted it on a good few occassions and it always goes the same way; I realize there's no painless or clean way of doing it, I realize if I get it wrong I could be a cripple for life or I could find myself in a psychiatric institution, then I get some sleep, the depression lifts, I realize I was blowing things way out of proportion and I'm relieved I didn't end it. Suicide really is the most retared idea ever conceived of in human history. There's always a solution, if you can't see it, you're just not looking hard enough.
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