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01 Nov 2013, 7:18 am

Now to find one of these women that don't make things complicated.



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01 Nov 2013, 7:27 am

Man, you're acting like EmoGlambertAspie.

Except I am feeling like beating you right now to pull yourself altogether.

You're acting as if it's your Gf who cheated on you while she has nothing to do with all of this!! !



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01 Nov 2013, 7:30 am

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Man, you're acting like EmoGlambertAspie.

Except I am feeling like beating you right now to pull yourself altogether.

You're acting as if it's your Gf who cheated on you while she has nothing to do with all of this!! !


Boo, in your experience, when girls were into you, how long did it take for them to show obvious signs of being into you?



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01 Nov 2013, 7:33 am

Shau wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Man, you're acting like EmoGlambertAspie.

Except I am feeling like beating you right now to pull yourself altogether.

You're acting as if it's your Gf who cheated on you while she has nothing to do with all of this!! !


Boo, in your experience, when girls were into you, how long did it take for them to show obvious signs of being into you?


Instantly.



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01 Nov 2013, 7:38 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Man, you're acting like EmoGlambertAspie.

Except I am feeling like beating you right now to pull yourself altogether.

You're acting as if it's your Gf who cheated on you while she has nothing to do with all of this!! !


Boo, in your experience, when girls were into you, how long did it take for them to show obvious signs of being into you?


Instantly.


That's it. That's it. I'm outta here. Eject, eject, eject. That's what my instincts say too. It should be instant, obvious. If there's any doubt, there's probably a problem.

EJEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEECT.

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01 Nov 2013, 7:41 am

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Shau wrote:
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Man, you're acting like EmoGlambertAspie.

Except I am feeling like beating you right now to pull yourself altogether.

You're acting as if it's your Gf who cheated on you while she has nothing to do with all of this!! !


Boo, in your experience, when girls were into you, how long did it take for them to show obvious signs of being into you?


Instantly.


That's it. That's it. I'm outta here. Eject, eject, eject. That's what my instincts say too. It should be instant, obvious. If there's any doubt, there's probably a problem.

EJEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEECT.

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The problem is your insecurity, you said she's conservative so don't expect she's gonna be sexual with you instantly.

But oh...you forgot one thing that proves she's very interested and quite serious..... SHE'S YOUR GIRLFRIEND ALREADY!!

Wait, she is your girlfriend right? like she does call refer you as her bf, right?



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01 Nov 2013, 7:51 am

Shau wrote:
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Shau wrote:
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Man, you're acting like EmoGlambertAspie.

Except I am feeling like beating you right now to pull yourself altogether.

You're acting as if it's your Gf who cheated on you while she has nothing to do with all of this!! !


Boo, in your experience, when girls were into you, how long did it take for them to show obvious signs of being into you?


Instantly.


That's it. That's it. I'm outta here. Eject, eject, eject. That's what my instincts say too. It should be instant, obvious. If there's any doubt, there's probably a problem.

EJEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEECT.

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Are you speculating that you girlfriend might be doing any one of these?
Using you as a cover so that no other guy tries to pick her up while in your country.
Using you as a cover because she is asexual, lesbian or just not attracted to you.
She will not be sexually compatible with you in the future when you do happen to do the act.

Any of those crossing your mind?



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01 Nov 2013, 8:04 am

All sorts of s**t like that. Also including "Rebounding from her 'playboy' ex-bf who has been messing around with her sister".



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01 Nov 2013, 8:07 am

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Ladies, I am really worked up now. Last night freaked me out, this is the kind of sh** women deal with. I wasn't even the TARGET and the visceral fear of rape sent shivers up and down my spine that hasn't left me since last night, I can't even imagine what it's like having to be the woman. I will from this day on in my life always be fully sympathetic of the fear women feel in today's society. I'm just mistrustful of everyone and everything at the moment. It feels like I can't trust men or women...what if I hadn't been there and my GF had been the target? Could she have cheated on me? Would things had turned out much differently had I not come back to the gathering? And now it seems like women expect me to be just like those guys...

Hell of an update...haven't seen my GF yet since this...I just dunno what to think or do anymore...


Good. I am glad you experienced that and that you have posted about it. Perhaps it is a testament to the Aspieness of this place that nobody seems to understand what you are talking about.

Here's the thing - women are raised - pay attention - raised, conditioned, groomed - from day one to be nice, agreeable and to not upset other people. This means they are for all intents and purposes expected to tolerate advances of men even when they don't want to. Otherwise, they would be perceived as rude b*****s, and most women cannot cope with that. I've come across a lot of players in my life and these people are good at what they do and when they set their eye on the mark, it's really difficult to refuse them politely. Impossible, I'd say.



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01 Nov 2013, 8:19 am

maybe it is best to have a hot cup of milk and go to bed and get a good nights sleep, and most probably when you wake up tomorrow, you'll have forgotten all about it.



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01 Nov 2013, 8:24 am

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Ladies, I am really worked up now. Last night freaked me out, this is the kind of sh** women deal with. I wasn't even the TARGET and the visceral fear of rape sent shivers up and down my spine that hasn't left me since last night, I can't even imagine what it's like having to be the woman. I will from this day on in my life always be fully sympathetic of the fear women feel in today's society. I'm just mistrustful of everyone and everything at the moment. It feels like I can't trust men or women...what if I hadn't been there and my GF had been the target? Could she have cheated on me? Would things had turned out much differently had I not come back to the gathering? And now it seems like women expect me to be just like those guys...

Hell of an update...haven't seen my GF yet since this...I just dunno what to think or do anymore...


Good. I am glad you experienced that and that you have posted about it. Perhaps it is a testament to the Aspieness of this place that nobody seems to understand what you are talking about.

Here's the thing - women are raised - pay attention - raised, conditioned, groomed - from day one to be nice, agreeable and to not upset other people. This means they are for all intents and purposes expected to tolerate advances of men even when they don't want to. Otherwise, they would be perceived as rude b*****s, and most women cannot cope with that. I've come across a lot of players in my life and these people are good at what they do and when they set their eye on the mark, it's really difficult to refuse them politely. Impossible, I'd say.


What advances? We're talking about hands on legs and french kissing, those are way beyond courting advances.

I am not buying what you and Kjas are saying, you two are basically saying that "girls are raised in a way that they wouldn't be able to refuse unsolicited kissing and sexual acts by players."

That's a nonsense BS, self-victimization, I don't buy it, those players wouldn't succeed if the other side wasn't rewarding them in their game. There's no victim in that case, both sides are enjoying the benefits.

It's also insulting for the entire female population, as if women are mindless bags of instincts that can turned on by pushing the right buttons.



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01 Nov 2013, 8:30 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
leafplant wrote:
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Ladies, I am really worked up now. Last night freaked me out, this is the kind of sh** women deal with. I wasn't even the TARGET and the visceral fear of rape sent shivers up and down my spine that hasn't left me since last night, I can't even imagine what it's like having to be the woman. I will from this day on in my life always be fully sympathetic of the fear women feel in today's society. I'm just mistrustful of everyone and everything at the moment. It feels like I can't trust men or women...what if I hadn't been there and my GF had been the target? Could she have cheated on me? Would things had turned out much differently had I not come back to the gathering? And now it seems like women expect me to be just like those guys...

Hell of an update...haven't seen my GF yet since this...I just dunno what to think or do anymore...


Good. I am glad you experienced that and that you have posted about it. Perhaps it is a testament to the Aspieness of this place that nobody seems to understand what you are talking about.

Here's the thing - women are raised - pay attention - raised, conditioned, groomed - from day one to be nice, agreeable and to not upset other people. This means they are for all intents and purposes expected to tolerate advances of men even when they don't want to. Otherwise, they would be perceived as rude b*****s, and most women cannot cope with that. I've come across a lot of players in my life and these people are good at what they do and when they set their eye on the mark, it's really difficult to refuse them politely. Impossible, I'd say.


What advances? We're talking about hands on legs and french kissing, those are way beyond courting advances.

I am not buying what you and Kjas are saying, you two are basically saying that "girls are raised in a way that they wouldn't be able to refuse unsolicited kissing and sexual acts by players.

That's a nonsense BS, I don't buy it, those players wouldn't succeed if the other side wasn't rewarding them in their game.

It's also insulting for the entire female population, as if women are mindless bags of instincts that can turned on by pushing the right buttons.


TBH, I reckon 90% of the human race could be manipulated by pushing the right buttons.

For example, my big button is chocolate. Have chocolate, have Kezzstar.


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01 Nov 2013, 8:35 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Ladies, I am really worked up now. Last night freaked me out, this is the kind of sh** women deal with. I wasn't even the TARGET and the visceral fear of rape sent shivers up and down my spine that hasn't left me since last night, I can't even imagine what it's like having to be the woman. I will from this day on in my life always be fully sympathetic of the fear women feel in today's society. I'm just mistrustful of everyone and everything at the moment. It feels like I can't trust men or women...what if I hadn't been there and my GF had been the target? Could she have cheated on me? Would things had turned out much differently had I not come back to the gathering? And now it seems like women expect me to be just like those guys...

Hell of an update...haven't seen my GF yet since this...I just dunno what to think or do anymore...


Good. I am glad you experienced that and that you have posted about it. Perhaps it is a testament to the Aspieness of this place that nobody seems to understand what you are talking about.

Here's the thing - women are raised - pay attention - raised, conditioned, groomed - from day one to be nice, agreeable and to not upset other people. This means they are for all intents and purposes expected to tolerate advances of men even when they don't want to. Otherwise, they would be perceived as rude b*****s, and most women cannot cope with that. I've come across a lot of players in my life and these people are good at what they do and when they set their eye on the mark, it's really difficult to refuse them politely. Impossible, I'd say.


What advances? We're talking about hands on legs and french kissing, those are way beyond courting advances.

I am not buying what you and Kjas are saying, you two are basically saying that "girls are raised in a way that they wouldn't be able to refuse unsolicited kissing and sexual acts by players."

That's a nonsense BS, self-victimization, I don't buy it, those players wouldn't succeed if the other side wasn't rewarding them in their game. There's no victim in that case, both sides are enjoying the benefits.

It's also insulting for the entire female population, as if women are mindless bags of instincts that can turned on by pushing the right buttons.


This is why I have chosen to be under the impression these women in particular were up for cheating and simply were quite clever in how they went about it.
There are women that get taken advantage of for the very reasons leafplant and Kjas have stated, but I think these 2 women knew what they were doing in this case. Regardless, IMO Shau shouldn't focus on all these other people but instead on what's going on with his own relationship.



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01 Nov 2013, 8:37 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
The problem is your insecurity, you said she's conservative so don't expect she's gonna be sexual with you instantly.

But oh...you forgot one thing that proves she's very interested and quite serious..... SHE'S YOUR GIRLFRIEND ALREADY!!

Wait, she is your girlfriend right? like she does call refer you as her bf, right?


I said this ages ago - this girl likes you! Make your move!

If you don't, some other guy will do it right in front of you. And where will you be then?

Think about it.



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01 Nov 2013, 8:40 am

Wait, both are cheaters? I thought only one is married, it is not clear if the other is taken.



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01 Nov 2013, 8:41 am

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Wait, both are cheaters? I thought only one is married, it is not clear if the other is taken.


No, one is married. But I wonder why his GF is so 'conservative'.

I wonder if OP will have a surprise and end up finding out that she is not as 'conservative' as he thinks, but it will be at the hands of a guy who knows what he's doing - i.e. not OP.