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08 Oct 2014, 11:13 pm

I don't think my hyperactive and constantly curious personality is a turn on for most. :?


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09 Oct 2014, 1:15 am

AspieOtaku wrote:
I don't think my hyperactive and constantly curious personality is a turn on for most. :?


Dude, a good chunk of people aren't a turn on for "most" because lots of people like something particular nowadays. Lots of women don't like that I'm an Irishman with a beard like a dwarf, practically clown shoe sized feet, and grey body hair as thick as chewbacca. But guess what? Some women go nuckin futs for that!

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Personally, give me an intelligent, built, confident, high functioning aspie and panties will drop. It's not a fetish, there are just something things that really work.


Lmao, god you're such a tease! I can just picture a hundred lonely dudes on this site saying to themselves "oh s$%t, oh s$%t, what is her area code!"


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09 Oct 2014, 2:53 pm

Lukecash12 wrote:

PrettyStarFury wrote:
Personally, give me an intelligent, built, confident, high functioning aspie and panties will drop. It's not a fetish, there are just something things that really work.


Lmao, god you're such a tease! I can just picture a hundred lonely dudes on this site saying to themselves "oh s$%t, oh s$%t, what is her area code!"


Nah, I'm out after "built" and "confident"

I'm out like a fat kid in a game of dodgeball.


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09 Oct 2014, 11:15 pm

Lukecash12 wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
I don't think my hyperactive and constantly curious personality is a turn on for most. :?


Dude, a good chunk of people aren't a turn on for "most" because lots of people like something particular nowadays. Lots of women don't like that I'm an Irishman with a beard like a dwarf, practically clown shoe sized feet, and grey body hair as thick as chewbacca. But guess what? Some women go nuckin futs for that!

PrettyStarFury wrote:
Personally, give me an intelligent, built, confident, high functioning aspie and panties will drop. It's not a fetish, there are just something things that really work.


Lmao, god you're such a tease! I can just picture a hundred lonely dudes on this site saying to themselves "oh s$%t, oh s$%t, what is her area code!"
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10 Oct 2014, 11:31 am

JackBruns wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
I know it might come off as far fetched but its true, there are some NTs who want an aspie!


Sure. Until they find out their significant other starts to act out on his/her autism. Then it's over.


Eight years this month. Four children. If he hasn't start to "act out on his autism", when should I expect it?


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10 Oct 2014, 5:24 pm

sure, most NTs would not like a relationship with an Aspie, while a few do...
For me, the question is: would I want to be in a relationship with an NT woman?
and having been in 2 of those, I must say: No.
As they repeatedly accused me of game-playing and intentional rudeness to punish them and things like that, I prefer being alone to being in a relationship in which I have to assume that every movement I make will be read as form of 'communication'. And probably I'd be expected to interpret their behaviour similarly. Too stressfull, not worth it.

I enoyed being in a realtionship with an ASD woman, and would like that state back. I felt safe.


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