Question for guys when looking for a girl...

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I see nothing on that list that makes me go 'eew, ick, get it away get it away!' and an alarming quantity of positive qualities. I would never talk to said girl, because I don't talk to anyone I don't know well, but if given the opportunity to get to know her I would not immediately discount her as a possible friend or romantic interest based on the information I have so far been given. It's likely I'd even give her shy blushing glances and be absolutely certain to avoid eye contact at all costs due to the strange and uncomfortable surge of brain chemicals I get when presented with the opportunity to meet a potentially interesting person.

The way that you write obviously you are writing about yourself

Anyway, I would love those qualities (but the feminist thing, but I will explain that later, I do not want to make your topic a flamewar And I am not against women rights or thingsl like this, only some things I am against...)

In fact, that also describes myself :/ Altough I am male...

I am virgin, in fact I never kissed...
Also I never had a girlfriend
I have a single friend, altough I do not talk with him much (he is a friend of mine because our mothers were friends and lived in the same tower and we knew each other since we were babies, so we were really close, now we are not that close, but we are still friends).
But the rest is similar I think...
Oh yeah, I am not much into emo thing, some people define me like a cyberpunk, but to me I am just a guy that wears black all the time, has long hair, has a chain in the neck with a dragon, and is a nerd.
The only sports that I like are martial arts, swimming and biking. (altough I play basketball rarely...)
I am not graduated yet, I am graduating in design, in a school where there are only design, architeture and fashion (in fact the majority of the students there are fashion students).
Also I am Drug and Alcohool free...
I like some fighting games, but I suck in most of them, but Soul Calibur (where I am "average") and Virtua Fighter (this one I really like), but my game tastes are ecletic
Also I am hispanic, brunnete and with brown eyes...
I am 5' 9' tall
And I am a bit overweight (in fact in numbers I am really overweight, but I have lots of mass from muscles, I attempted to lose mass doing sports, and I only gained muscles and lost no fat, thus getting only heavier, altough much more healthier, but to my bones, that dislike my weight...)

That is it

^ I am middle-eastern , does that automatically mean that I have problem with feminists?

Prob not.

if said girl had an interest in history then id be very interested

I would give her the time of day but probably not date her. My reason for this is that I believe the only reason for dating is to marry, and I don't want to marry an autistic girl because I don't want our kids to be LF autistic, which I've heard happens pretty often when two Aspergers/autistic people 'breed'.

It seems as if some folks haven't yet figured out about girls yet.

I have yet to figure out a reason for dating other then marriage. Nor marriage save for children. I'd have no trouble being friends though. Sounds fun.
P.S. Then again it becomes more and more likely that the only girl I'll be able to stand will be an aspie...

What I have against feminists mostly depends in fact from the opinions of that person, altough I think that this may not be the case, a extreme example was some feminists that I knew that were lesbians because they claimed that men are only for reproduction... Oo

On second thought...if you want everything on that list...you're going to be searching a loooooong time...

Just hope they don't have an equally long list for you...

Love is often imperfect. No matter how good she looks at the altar, give it 5 years and there'll be something about her that drives you batty (and vice versa...

You may find, over time, that your list will also change....