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30 Oct 2011, 7:22 pm

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Also women rarely are ever sexist look at the history of sexism women have always been the victim of it.


I see sexist comments from women all the time. Your argument is as flimsy as if you'd said "black people can't be racist".


Never said they couldn't be but that doesn't have much to do with sexism sexism and racism are to different things.


Both require the person to think an entire group of people (gender v race) are inferior in some way. I see little difference.


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30 Oct 2011, 7:26 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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Also women rarely are ever sexist look at the history of sexism women have always been the victim of it.


I see sexist comments from women all the time. Your argument is as flimsy as if you'd said "black people can't be racist".


Never said they couldn't be but that doesn't have much to do with sexism sexism and racism are to different things.


Both require the person to think an entire group of people (gender v race) are inferior in some way. I see little difference.


People do not get killed for being male or female. All thought their are men who hate women and women who hate men. But you can target your hate to other things besides murder.



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30 Oct 2011, 7:29 pm

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People do not get killed for being male or female. All thought their are men who hate women and women who hate men. But you can target your hate to other things besides murder.


You're kidding, right? Women are raped and murdered all the time by woman haters. Then there's Black Widows.


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30 Oct 2011, 7:35 pm

I should make a plastical surgery and train some sixpacks.
but I won't do those things, I feel fine the way I am. I'd love to be beautiful once but in my age I wouldn't even think of a plastical surgery.
As long as I get by with it... :)


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30 Oct 2011, 7:35 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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People do not get killed for being male or female. All thought their are men who hate women and women who hate men. But you can target your hate to other things besides murder.


You're kidding, right? Women are raped and murdered all the time by woman haters. Then there's Black Widows.


Yes that is true I know it happens I wish men that did those things where castrated but at least it happens to them in prison rapists do not survive long behind bars.

I believe women tend to murder for their own personal gain but others kill men just because they hate them which is wrong.



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30 Oct 2011, 7:40 pm

Can we get back on topic?

Start an "all men suck" thread if you want... :?



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30 Oct 2011, 7:44 pm

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Can we get back on topic?

Start an "all men suck" thread if you want... :?


Men don't suck. Besides, such a thread would be against the rules.


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30 Oct 2011, 7:45 pm

Not all men suck any way I think self confidence is the only thing you need to be attractive and my girlfriend is very attractive to me because she is confident in her own skin.



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30 Oct 2011, 8:11 pm

Grisha wrote:
Can we get back on topic?


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Start an "all men suck" thread if you want... :?


Please, for the love of god, don't. We have enough all *insert arbitrary group here* suck threads as it stands.

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Also women rarely are ever sexist look at the history of sexism women have always been the victim of it.


You're sort of disproving your own point here... please be careful with the language you use. No need to incite any flame wars, this forum has enough of that already.


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30 Oct 2011, 9:38 pm

Nothing I'm perfect!


Ok.....maybe not. The main thing for me would to try to overcome my anxiety and be more confident around people. I don't like the idea of having to change my clothes or my interests just because they are not "fashionable" (whatever that means) and/or geeky.



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30 Oct 2011, 9:42 pm

More attractive, or at your absolute best?

More attractive: Make an effort to wear nice clothes, and do my hair.

My best: Lose weight, wear better clothes, wear make up, do my hair, get a fake tan, get my teeth whitened, be less of a mental health cot case, Be happy, get medicated for depression better, sort out my concentration problem, learn and experience as much as I can about life, be more accepting of people, eyelash extensions, hair extensions, laser hair removal, meet as many people as possible, do as many things as possible and try as many new things as possible, increase my self confidence tenfold, have a better attitude (relates to depression).



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30 Oct 2011, 9:57 pm

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More attractive, or at your absolute best?

More attractive: Make an effort to wear nice clothes, and do my hair.

My best: Lose weight, wear better clothes, wear make up, do my hair, get a fake tan, get my teeth whitened, be less of a mental health cot case, Be happy, get medicated for depression better, sort out my concentration problem, learn and experience as much as I can about life, be more accepting of people, eyelash extensions, hair extensions, laser hair removal, meet as many people as possible, do as many things as possible and try as many new things as possible, increase my self confidence tenfold, have a better attitude (relates to depression).


Regarding bolded: is this necessary to be ones best? 8O *dies* In that case, guess I'm doomed to live out the rest of my as an unattractive scruffy bum. Damn. :lol:


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30 Oct 2011, 9:57 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
More attractive, or at your absolute best?

More attractive: Make an effort to wear nice clothes, and do my hair.

My best: Lose weight, wear better clothes, wear make up, do my hair, get a fake tan, get my teeth whitened, be less of a mental health cot case, Be happy, get medicated for depression better, sort out my concentration problem, learn and experience as much as I can about life, be more accepting of people, eyelash extensions, hair extensions, laser hair removal, meet as many people as possible, do as many things as possible and try as many new things as possible, increase my self confidence tenfold, have a better attitude (relates to depression).


Regarding bolded: is this necessary to be ones best? 8O *dies* In that case, guess I'm doomed to live out the rest of my life as an unattractive scruffy bum. Damn. :lol:


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30 Oct 2011, 10:07 pm

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More attractive, or at your absolute best?

More attractive: Make an effort to wear nice clothes, and do my hair.

My best: Lose weight, wear better clothes, wear make up, do my hair, get a fake tan, get my teeth whitened, be less of a mental health cot case, Be happy, get medicated for depression better, sort out my concentration problem, learn and experience as much as I can about life, be more accepting of people, eyelash extensions, hair extensions, laser hair removal, meet as many people as possible, do as many things as possible and try as many new things as possible, increase my self confidence tenfold, have a better attitude (relates to depression).


I dunno... personally, most of those things would be a turn-off for me. Fake tans, eyelash extensions and hair extensions are definite turn-offs. Make-up depends... I prefer none but can understand a little. Losing weight, only if you need to, but from the videos of yours I've seen you don't. The only thing I agree with on that list is try new things and have a better attitude. But then that's just the opinion of one guy.



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30 Oct 2011, 10:08 pm

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More attractive, or at your absolute best?

More attractive: Make an effort to wear nice clothes, and do my hair.

My best: Lose weight, wear better clothes, wear make up, do my hair, get a fake tan, get my teeth whitened, be less of a mental health cot case, Be happy, get medicated for depression better, sort out my concentration problem, learn and experience as much as I can about life, be more accepting of people, eyelash extensions, hair extensions, laser hair removal, meet as many people as possible, do as many things as possible and try as many new things as possible, increase my self confidence tenfold, have a better attitude (relates to depression).


Regarding bolded: is this necessary to be ones best? 8O *dies* In that case, guess I'm doomed to live out the rest of my as an unattractive scruffy bum. Damn. :lol:


Riight there with you!


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30 Oct 2011, 11:00 pm

sunshower wrote:
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More attractive, or at your absolute best?

More attractive: Make an effort to wear nice clothes, and do my hair.

My best: Lose weight, wear better clothes, wear make up, do my hair, get a fake tan, get my teeth whitened, be less of a mental health cot case, Be happy, get medicated for depression better, sort out my concentration problem, learn and experience as much as I can about life, be more accepting of people, eyelash extensions, hair extensions, laser hair removal, meet as many people as possible, do as many things as possible and try as many new things as possible, increase my self confidence tenfold, have a better attitude (relates to depression).


Regarding bolded: is this necessary to be ones best? 8O *dies* In that case, guess I'm doomed to live out the rest of my life as an unattractive scruffy bum. Damn. :lol:


No it varies from person to person. I also forgot: Botox. BUT I am talking about the EXTREME.