Do You Ever Feel Like You Will NEVER Find a Soul Mate?

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A soulmate for me? Wow...it will take a special woman (not a ret*d one, folks; I mean a unique one) to put up with the likes of me, but I guess it is possible. I used to think that my soulmate didn't exist, but there must be at least one chair for every ass, so it has to be certain that she's out there.

Soulmate? Hell, i'll be happy if I can find someone that I can somewhat connect with. I'm far too weird.

Not really, I'm far more hopeful nowadays than a few years ago.

Ah, my soul is probably a meatball or something. It's odd, deep, true. And also pretty awesome. And hey, I like meatballs! Yeah!
Guys in my school aren't really familliar with awesome aspies [like me] so I don't expect them to like it. But it fascinates them. Though not much else happens after that. They're probably jealous because their souls aren't meatballs.

No. I am far too unable to connect, too sensitive, too non gendery, too freaky, too too too weird, void of luck or success in life, paranoid in avoiding abuse and treachery (I don't easily trust people who act interested because I have been used and betrayed too many times), TOOOOO BOOOORING I am always boring to people.

Do I ever feel like I'll never find a soul mate? The question should be reversed. I've pretty much accepted the fact that I'll never find one and that's pretty much constant.

Actually, you guys are not weird. You're just as you're meant to be. The only time people won't accept you is when you offend them. Even if you don't mean to.

Even though I feel like I'll never find my soul mate I still hold on to hope that I will one day meet her.

[quote="Eureka13"]I found one. I really hope that someday I

yeah would be better if women weren't atheists. women younger than me are to annoying. ughh.

I found "1" in my whole life, other then she didnt feel the same. she was built almost just like me in the sense we were both aspi, in fact we met here on this forum. in may ways we were almost identical. but that wasn't good enough, because even though she had many of the same flaws as me, she wanted better, she wanted a more secure and well balanced male to care for her, to make HER feel secure, instead of being that for each other. so I didn't seem masculine enough for her, and so she dumped me for someone new.

Forever alone, I have zero expectations of finding a soul mate. When I see couples their lifestyle seems too shallow to me, no way I could share such burden with someone else.

There's no such thing. I do hope that someday I will meet someone compatible enough to be my lifemate though. It's unlikely, but it could happen.

Never met mine but yes I do believe in soul mates and I do believe that we Aspies are just as capable as finding love as NT
no one is perfect, we all have our quirks ect
one day you'll meet someone that accepts you as you do them and you'll both just click
and I like to think of it like hotel Transylvania, you'll find that one person you'll zing with.

I know many people will disagree and say that I live in fairyland
but sometimes fantasy is better the reality.

But tbh nt or not a lot of people seem to have dysfunctional relationships and aren't happy
so it isn't all that it's cracked up to be.