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19 Oct 2011, 5:44 pm

Embroglio wrote:
I'm starting to think MR20 is an attention whore. He expects us all to pity him. Then when people offer him reasonable advice he goes around making excuses on why he can't do it.


agreed. there is only so much someone can help and pity a person that seems not want to help ones self.



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20 Oct 2011, 11:01 am

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It's not that simple. I'm so sick of this "get over it" attitude that people like you and Fnord seem to have. I'm just not capable of this stuff. I barely know my time-tables and fractions, there's no way that I'm going to be able to pass a GED exam. I can't comprehend most of that stuff.

I can't get a job because I don't have an education, a car for transportation, and I struggle around crowds of people.

I can't bathe regularly because that's not really possible with my living conditions. I have no hot water, and my bathroom is dirty and rat-infested. Also, really hard to bathe now in the fall/winter with no hot water.

I can't get a girl to talk to me because I'm an ugly, slow, stupid, poor, friendless, weird and boring bum that has nothing going for himself

I don't have friends because I'm "uncool", annoying and very irritating to be around

There's not a lot of things that I can do because simply, I'm too inadequate and inferior. There's no hope.


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Tell me, how would my life be any better? I'll still feel the way I feel. (depressed, miserable, lonely, bitter) I'll still be an ugly, slow, stupid, and poor pathetic loser.

I won't have any friends

In addition to the above reasons; Girls won't even talk to me because I'm below the poverty line, I can't drive, and I'm a good for nothing bum.

Tell me, what's the use of living if I have a future like that to look forward to?

Okay ... let me ask another question - a nicer one this time.

You seem to have access to a computer and an Internet connection. You also seem to be articulate. Your spelling and grammar seem to be on par with first-year university students.

Have you ever thought of combining these into working as a medical transcriptionist or maybe even as a writer of fiction?

Really. I mean it. Please give it some thought before you answer.

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First, anybody can write like this if they paid attention some in elementary school, so I don't really consider that impressive.

Second, I don't think I can comprehend any of that doctor/medical stuff, and in addition to having no interest, I don't know where to begin at writing literature.



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20 Oct 2011, 11:04 am

Embroglio wrote:
I'm starting to think MR20 is an attention whore. He expects us all to pity him. Then when people offer him reasonable advice he goes around making excuses on why he can't do it.


I'm not an attention whore. It's just when I get very frustrated, I need a place where I'm able to talk about about my thoughts and feelings.

This forum happens to be most comfortable for me.



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20 Oct 2011, 11:25 am

MR20 wrote:
Embroglio wrote:
I'm starting to think MR20 is an attention whore. He expects us all to pity him. Then when people offer him reasonable advice he goes around making excuses on why he can't do it.


I'm not an attention whore. It's just when I get very frustrated, I need a place where I'm able to talk about about my thoughts and feelings.

This forum happens to be most comfortable for me.


Yes, but WHY in Love and Dating? You seem to have so many issues that need addressing before you should be coming to this sub-forum. Your posts have so much more of a Haven-y vibe. I think that's part of why people are calling you an attention whore. You post here because you know it has high traffic.



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20 Oct 2011, 11:31 am

I am a trolling whore.

I get pleasure by being trolled (and trolling back).



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20 Oct 2011, 3:12 pm

mv wrote:
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Embroglio wrote:
I'm starting to think MR20 is an attention whore. He expects us all to pity him. Then when people offer him reasonable advice he goes around making excuses on why he can't do it.


I'm not an attention whore. It's just when I get very frustrated, I need a place where I'm able to talk about about my thoughts and feelings.

This forum happens to be most comfortable for me.


Yes, but WHY in Love and Dating? You seem to have so many issues that need addressing before you should be coming to this sub-forum. Your posts have so much more of a Haven-y vibe. I think that's part of why people are calling you an attention whore. You post here because you know it has high traffic.


But this topic is pertaining to L&D.

We're discussing how I have no shot at love or dating. No decent girl would ever talk to me in public let alone go out with me, because I'm a pathetic and worthless loser.



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20 Oct 2011, 3:26 pm

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We're discussing how I have no shot at love or dating. No decent girl would ever talk to me in public let alone go out with me, because I'm a pathetic and worthless loser.


If there really is no hope for you, why do you even talk about it? So you can't get a girfriend. And there's apparently nothing you can do about it. In that case, there's no point in discussing it because there's no possibility of an answer. So, why are you here?


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20 Oct 2011, 8:19 pm

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21 Oct 2011, 10:35 am

seoulgamer wrote:
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We're discussing how I have no shot at love or dating. No decent girl would ever talk to me in public let alone go out with me, because I'm a pathetic and worthless loser.


If there really is no hope for you, why do you even talk about it? So you can't get a girfriend. And there's apparently nothing you can do about it. In that case, there's no point in discussing it because there's no possibility of an answer. So, why are you here?



Why am I here? Because it's a good place to talk about my problems and I feel comfortable here. I have a right to post on this forum, I'm not hurting anyone or things like that.