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14 Dec 2009, 8:02 am

I'm German and I started liking this girl four years ago. I met her on Spectrum Forums. She was ten that time and I was twelve. For me, four years is really a long time. I'm now sure of what i feel for her. I'm inlove with her. She is one of a kind because she's not the same with other girls. She is not that girly. I haven't seen her in personal but we usually chat on Yahoo! before but she's rarely on these days though.

I wanna tell my feelings for her. Any advice how to do it? What do you think of online relationship?

PS: To be honest, I moved here because I heard she also moved here. I can't find her account here though. Probably she registered with different username.



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14 Dec 2009, 8:05 am

Good luck finding her :wink:



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14 Dec 2009, 8:15 am

I am obsessed with an Aspie girl too( from Asia) . I was about to stalk her again here on WP (btw, i met her on a forum called aspies for freedom) lol but I found out she's taken. The guy seems kind so i'll let go of the girl. If you love a person,you should learn how to let them go. Online relationships...hmm..my mom and dad started there..



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14 Dec 2009, 12:46 pm

aspiegerman wrote:
I'm German and I started liking this girl four years ago. I met her on Spectrum Forums. She was ten at the time and I was twelve. For me, four years is really a long time. I'm sure now of what i feel for her. I'm in love with her. She is one-of-a-kind because she's not the same as other girls. She's not that girly. I haven't seen her in person, but we usually chat on Yahoo!, but she's rarely on these days though.

I wanna tell my feelings for her. Any advice how to do it? What do you think of online relationship?

PS: To be honest, I moved here because I heard she also moved here. I can't find her account here though. Probably she registered with different username.


Good luck :)

I have sort of the opposite situation. I think an aspie girl is becoming obsessed with me.
and i am definitely not complaining haha 8)


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14 Dec 2009, 1:25 pm

aspiegerman wrote:
I'm German and I started liking this girl four years ago. I met him on Spectrum Forums. She was ten that time and I was twelve. For me, four years is really a long time. I'm now sure of what i feel for her. I'm inlove with her. She is one of a kind because she's not the same with other girls. She is not that girly. I haven't seen her in personal but we usually chat on Yahoo! before but she's rarely on these days though.

I wanna tell my feelings for her. Any advice how to do it? What do you think of online relationship?

PS: To be honest, I moved here because I heard she also moved here. I can't find her account here though. Probably she registered with different username.




I am not fond of online relationships because what's the point if I am never going to see the other person? I don't have the money to go see them, they don't have the money to go see me. But if we lived so close, then that be different. Sure I could move closer to them or they could move closer to me but I don't have the money and the other person can't always move because of their job. So I find them a waste.

But be careful to not stalk her. Oh BTW, you made an error on your post where I bolded. :D



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14 Dec 2009, 4:26 pm

OP, will you please keep in mind that this girl is 14 years old - and that's well under the age of consent (in the civilized world, at least).

Since you're living in the same area, I think you should try to develop a IRL relationship with the young lady, if she's receptive. (That means you should ask her on a date, not try to get over on her.) I've heard of online relationships that work out, I've heard of ones that don't....but the ones that do eventually become real-life relationships.



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14 Dec 2009, 6:02 pm

HopeGrows wrote:
OP, will you please keep in mind that this girl is 14 years old - and that's well under the age of consent (in the civilized world, at least).

Since you're living in the same area, I think you should try to develop a IRL relationship with the young lady, if she's receptive. (That means you should ask her on a date, not try to get over on her.) I've heard of online relationships that work out, I've heard of ones that don't....but the ones that do eventually become real-life relationships.
actually it varies from country to country. There's a number of European countries where the age of consent is only 15. Possibly Germany included. 14 isn't well under that :lol:


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14 Dec 2009, 6:24 pm

Two years apart is very close in age and doesn't make a difference.