OK, so I created this plenty of fish profile the other night for the heck of it and because I have been lonely and broke up with my Chinese girlfriend. I try my best not to believe the strange phenomenon that only Asian women seem to show interest in me as more than a friend, but once again this phenomenon has blown my mind. So I create a very detailed profile, where I talked about myself and what I am looking for. I was polite and nice and put up this photo of me. I requested chats/emailed with about 30+ women that were currently online and I was ignored completely by all the non-Asian women??? This is how ridiculous this is. The majority of the women were Hispanic, black and white and I only messaged 2 Asian women. I received responses from only 2 of all these women...can you guess what ethnicity they were? The only women who responded to me were the 2 Asian women wtf? Don't get me wrong. Hearing back from them is great because they are attractive too, but why do all other races completely blow me off? Am I just one of those guys that looks too thin or nerdy for any woman other than an Asian? Do you have pervert/creep written across my brow or is it gleaming in my eyes? WTF! It seriously pisses me off. I know I'm no Brad Pitt, but I'm not the Elephant Man either! I will probably get flamed for this, but honestly I really don't care anymore. So after being ignored completely by most of the women on there, I changed my profile info from polite-sounding, to very direct. E.G. I am looking for an intimate encounter. I am just looking for a good time no strings attached and I even have naughty suggestions within my profile. I am lonely and I am a young man. Sue me. I am also single, so if it brings a women to me then that is cool. I have my doubts though. I have a friend who uses the site and he is really ugly and hot women message him! I thought maybe it is because he says unique/interesting things...NOPE! I saw his profile and he says the same s**t to women I do...yet he is ugly and gets replies and I am not ugly (imo) and it is like I am ignored like the plague. I am sick and tired of this treatment from women. You know when a woman refuses to look at you for whatever reason? Like looks over your shoulder or off to the side when she is talking to you? Yeah that happens to me all the time...and this is like the online version of that bs. I am mainly looking for responses from women on here about whether or not I am attractive looking or not and why or why not?
P.S. I wanted to mention that I currently only have one photo posted on POF and this might be a major factor in why women could be ignoring me, BUT I have joined dating sites in the past and added a lot of what I thought were flattering photos of me and got the same results I am getting now. Maybe I have a baby face and women think I am too young or immature to be partner material...who knows. This world is nuts.
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