Living on Maui with no one like me.

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I live on the island of Maui, its safe to say the population is low, everyone knows each other around here....
My problem is, this makes me the biggest social outcast, Im 19,extremely intelligent, I look really good, 6.6ft tall with blue eyes.... Ladies flirt with me all the time, but I just flop, they realize I'm weird and always leave...
Just like this girl poking me on Facebook, she's made it clear she likes me by the way she keeps responding and poking me, but hell if I know what to say or do, the real me would scare her away....

Sometimes wonder if Japan will be different.

In happier news, I got accepted into college, and possibly a job.

I try to keep positive, and usually am a positive person, but it always kinda scratches its way to the surface.
I think I want an open relationship, or a fwb thing.
Seems I'll have to compromise with a crazy "marry me" kind of chick.
Just want a girl that's logical, then I wouldn't be so scared of marriage.

You lucky duck! What a beautiful place to live that must be! Hard when everyone knows your business though.


That is good news!


No rush right now, especially if you're starting college. Probably best to avoid relationships with people who are interested in more commitment than you.

At least girls are flirting while you're at 19.

Girls started flirting me at age 30.

And I live in area seen as hell by the rest of the world.

Well, Beirut is almost the eponymous war-torn city.

It's such a shame that Lebanon and the surrounding areas are so war torn. The beginnings of civilization are traced to the Middle East. It must be very distressing.

lol, That could partially explain why it's so primal/savage.

Very nice, how lucky I am.

Your lucky to be 6'6". That right there should get you plenty of ladies. Why aren't you confident? Embrace being different. I know that personally for me marijuana is what made me realize what is socially "cool" and what wasn't in other people's eyes if that helps.

I smoke too, it helped some. But I feel so scared of women, my moms a psychotic drunk and I have really bad experiences with women. I don't know what to say, and if I do, they still don't like me, and if I act like me they still don't like me, and if I show confidence, they later in the conversation realize I'm fake and don't like me.
Wondering if taking e will help me overcome mg past traumas, its not just women, its talking with anyone.

If Maui isnt cutting it out for you you can always try moving to the SF bay area. The people are friendly and accepting of aspies ever since I moved here I dont want to leave, for once I feel like I belong. Silicon valley is also a geeks paradise we also have lots of anime conventions out here not to mention google yahoo apple microsoft sony hp intel amd all of their headquarters out here. Not to mention the computer history museum.