Looking at cheap, pathetic people used to make me envious...

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Bare with me, this is just a rant:


I used to get quite jealous at the jocky, player types who could get girls whenever they wanted. Yet, I have never been supportive for the screw/chuck/next/screw/chuck/next/screw/chuck mind frame. It seemed animalistic and idiotic for people to sink to such a level. For some stupid reason, I was still envious of watching guys fondle girls that they barely knew and then getting all over them like it was nothing. Now I am completely over it. It's just so F**K*NG stupid, they just seem so small minded now.

I realize that meeting someone who values sex and love is going to be a rare and extremely rewarding episode when it happens. I know alot of you know what i'm talking about. Alot of you are probably still jealous of people that flirt around like that. I still see my friends (who are unlucky eccentric oddballs like me for the most part) looking around and drooling over those pathetic examples of human crap.
Baaaaa! I just want to smack them sometimes! I just remind them..."that's not what you want at all...snap out of it, lads!"

Maybe that IS what they want, and maybe you are still a wee bit jealous. Hmmm?

I don't think it's fair to judge. I have had some flingy, unserious times with girls in the past and I'm not a cheap, pathetic person. And I had no hard feelings for freinds it happened with afterwards because I knew it wouldn't be serious! What business is it of yours anyway,,,,and why are you watching these people if they're examples of crap?

There's nowt wrong with wanting a bit of fun, and sex is a worthwhile outcome in itself if thats all you want, as long as you both enjoy yourselves. Just because it isn't what you are looking for, it isn't fair to look down your nose at those who do. Strikes me as a little judgmental. Sex and love are not the same thing - both are good, and both together can be fantastic. But it isn't shallow or pathetic to enjoy sex for its own sake.

Dunc

I'm a cocktease and i'm not cheap or worthless. You can't just find one person, fall in love with them and leave it at that.. if you do, you're very lucky.

Hale Bopp, you remind me of my sister in many ways. She ran around with all kinds of dick heads and then finally settled down with a proud NERD. He loves her and treats her very good and she realizes the difference now. I have run into too many teases and they simply get the cold treatment. Last summer, a girl obviously skipped over me because she thought I was a nobody. Then when I showed up at the beach with my race boat and nice custom 4x4 Toyota that i've worked extremely hard on...she comes hovering around again. I acted as if I didn't even know her. Anyone who wants me for my s**t then they better get lost.

I think that I do still feel a bit envious but I always seem to snap out of it and say "drop it, you idiot...you know this is not your way!".
It's like being seduced by the dark side and then realizing..."oce down the dark path, forever will it dominate your destiny". Yeah, I know..I like Starwars a little too much so what!??, I'm a nerd!
Most of the anger is with my friends actually. They are stuck in the same rut that I got out of. Sometimes it's like banging my head up against a brick wall when trying to help them.

One of the world's worst modern social plagues is sexual deviance and I will take no part in it! It is my my choice and opinion that mankind is continuosly degrading itself and watering the concept of sex down. NO ONE is going to make me accept it either.

Media driven hype is pounding sex into our heads and advertising it as if it was some kind of cheap snack. The general population is accepting it. I will not reduce myself to the level of a zoo animal and I don't think anyone will tell me that it's ok. Aids and other STD cases are soaring all over the world. There are countless hoards of children born to mothers who "just wanted to go out and have fun and party". They are born to parents that don't have the resources or maturity to take care of them properly.

I have been guilty of a couple flings myself, it's not as if I am bitter because I can't 'get it'.

Glad to hear it, because you do sound a little bitter.

I hope you manage to work out what it is you want, and not let this sort of thing bother you.

I don't think I could ever see myself having a "fling." Dodging the question of morality, what I'm mostly against them for myself for is that I would get emotionally involved, and it would hurt like hell if the other person didn't, which in a fling, they probably wouldn't. Some kinds of people would be able to do this- not "deviants" (IMO) but people capable of avoiding emotional entanglement. I'm not one of those people, and if you aren't, it's good to know. It might get you laid less, but it might also keep you from getting (dare I say such a sappy phrase?) your heart broken. Or at least squashed.

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Well, we sort of did.... if you don't agree with it that's your look out. Don't do it then. I'm happy with my choices, and have no intention of either listening to anyone tell me they're better than me, or of telling anyone who feels differently that theirs are wrong or immoral. Different strokes for different folks.

Dunc

I couldn't have a fling, the reaon being I have to trust someone totally before I give them that level of power over me. I also need to have strong feelings towards them, love them.

General society is supposed to turn to disorder, it has been forseen and is certainly happening. .....More about that in the religion section.

People that believe in good morals are consistently being ridiculed and I don't like it at all. I'm standing up and if anyone wants to make fun of me they dare not do it to my face.

Sorry to get so mad but this looks like it's going where the gay arguement went a few months ago on here.

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he he he..we can only only hope it gets as entertaining as that was!

Nope, that was just warfare. I don't care if it's locked or not now actually. Anytime anyone wants to corner me, i'm going to coil up like a cobra. I don't care who you are or what status you have. Now that I think of it, a request to lock this is the same as raising a white flag. I'm not trying to say i'm better than anyone. It seems alot of you people have no guts to take a solid point of view on anything.

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Huh? What have I missed? This sounds serious...