She just sounds like someone who was interested in having you around to fill up the void in your life and then you got kicked when she found her special someone.
I had a childhood friend who was like that. We were tighter than bark on a tree and then the day she mentioned having a boyfriend over the phone was when everything changed. In fact I got on her nerves for my quirkiness too. Suddenly her boyfriend and his friends were way more important.
1. I was ignored during her 12th birthday treated horribly. (Used, manipulated, and made fun of)
2. Whenever I would call she would either brush me off and say that she was waiting for him to call or would smart off. For instance "I am sorry you have the wrong number." Another time she put food in her mouth and said "I'm eating supper."
3. She also talked about me behind my back to other people
Things have never been the same between us since.
It sounds like you might want to call her up and ask her if she is mad at you and whether she wants to continue having a relationship with you. It is also ok to tell her that you felt used and thrown away.
09 Aug 2014, 7:58 pm
