Brianruns10 wrote:
So last week I suggested to a classmate in my film program that we get some people together to go see Coraline.
why do you have to see it with a group of people?
i prefer to watch things without interruption by companions.
Brianruns10 wrote:
A lot of us are into animation, so it seemed like a no-brainer. It was early in the week, and she said we'd talk about it later. A few days went by, and I sent her a message reiterating the idea. No reply.
i do not like people who get desperate with me. i have neither a male or female mind, but i would escape someone who wanted to forcibly share experiences with me.
i would like to watch it by myself anonymously and uninterrupted. maybe she is pretty and that is your motive.
i see those flimsy approaches to mutual "bonding" with me using some shared interest in my life often. they are desperate people.
live what you are and let them come to you. you may have to wait long, but the longer you wait, the more believable you are in your self sufficiency.
Brianruns10 wrote:
Then a couple days ago I see this person's post on facebook about how great it was. She goes and sees it without me.
so what? did she enjoy it? why would she have to see it with you? if you also go and see it then you will know what she watched.
but you wanted to get romantic and hold her hand i guess.
maybe she realized that and avoided it.
Brianruns10 wrote:
It makes me so mad.
if i were a girl, i would find your attention style disturbing.
Brianruns10 wrote:
It's hard enough for us with these things, and to try, to make real efforts at socializing, and the f*cking NTs still shut us out!
but you see, your statement seems like you are a desperate person who is banging on the door of people you like to make them let you in.
i think just rejoice in who you are without reference to other people, and when they see your inner solidarity and strength, some will abandon their silly shallow notions and want to come to your world. you should never bend to their requirements. they should be already prepared to grow in your environment if they believe in you.
Brianruns10 wrote:
I'm beginning to wonder who's the real dysfunctional here? Let's see. We're upfront, clear thinking & logical. We say what we mean, and do what we say. We certainly seem to value companionship and friends more than they do!
please do not say "we" as you are talking about yourself and not every AS person.
you are disgruntled at the shrug off you got and it makes you feel bad.
well if you were enthusiastic about what your heart believes, then you would see people like that as nothing but bugs on your windshield.
concrete your certainty of your convictions in a secure belief that they are the sunniest way through your life, and people who have not that degree of confidence will hang on to you.
sorry i think i have embarrassed myself (in NT eyes) with this post because i am quite medium functioning at the moment, but "submit" will i press.
17 Feb 2009, 12:25 pm
