Son is very touchy - how to teach (? 4 people who are ASD).

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22 Sep 2008, 9:05 am

Electric_Kite wrote:
You are very welcome.

natesmom wrote:
Perhaps I can use those trees to form a social story as well.


If I understand what is meant by 'social story' correctly, a well-designed decision-making logic tree about a social situation could be used to generate several different related social-stories semi-randomly. The one I posted generates several stories about equipment failure, if you are just playing with it and imagine up or randomly generate the specifics of the situation to allow you to make the yes/no decisions. Kind of like one of those old 'Choose Your Own Adventure' books, but instead of just deciding, you look at something and are instructed to do this or that according to its state, and you cannot lose if you proceed by the rules and your observations are correct.

That's what I meant about the hop-scotch game. For every 'yes or no' junction on the tree, you'd flip a coin. If you compact the tree by using more than two options, you'd roll dice. Or make it harder by having somebody act out or describe imagined details of the imagined situation, making the player choose based on this performance (alas, introducing the possibility of incorrect observation leading to wrong choices and a failure that the tree can't mark) before he hops.

I now envision this as a game you buy in a box, with several social-situation logic trees inside, printed on big sheets of tyvek with corner grommets so you can tack them down to the lawn with tent-pegs, then flip coins, roll dice or act things out and hop around. If you make trees that please Nate and are widely regarded as functional by socially adroit people, I'm sure I'd like to see them and muse further upon this possibility.


I like this idea a lot!



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22 Sep 2008, 9:36 am

Wow. Electric kite - you are genius!! !

Thanks for all the ideas



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23 Sep 2008, 2:43 am

Thanks. I am the twelve-dollar shiraz of geniuses.

This taxonomic key to crickets is a much better example of such a tree. http://buzz.ifas.ufl.edu/k340k1.htm

A nice long complicated one if you count all the 'go to this page' bits and the separate keys to genera that it leads to. And extra-exciting because it's got pictures. I had dichotomous keys to local prairie grasses as a kid, but they were just text, not even trees, and one only looked at the drawings at the final step, when you double-check what you've keyed out against the species description. And I'm totally digressing.



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23 Sep 2008, 2:04 pm

I think maybe our sons are really twins natesmom LOL. My 6 year old is also very touchy feely but, like my 3 year old Autie, he does not know how to be snuggly without hurting. They both jump on me and stick their elbos in my stomach or step on my toes. Ive found that they both like "squishes" (pilling pillows on top of them and putting some of my weight on them) and it seems to feed thier need for pressure and keep them calm. My son is very loving though....he says "I love you Mommy" several times a day.



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24 Sep 2008, 4:07 am

Hi there,
One reason for inappropriate hugging can be because the child is trying to satisfy their craving for pressure. Does this sound like Nate?



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26 Sep 2008, 3:42 pm

Nate does touch to the point of hurting. He does this often.

Yes, Nate definitely craves deep pressure touching. We are going to get him a tighter shirt he can wear under clothing. The OT told me he probably doesn't need a weighted vest at this point but I am thinking of getting a lap weight to use when he is sitting. I give him pressure hugs throughout the day and it seems to calm him down. The OT told me that we can go to a sports store and get those tighter shirts used for running. I guess those help some kids. I just wonder if it will work for Nate.