The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
BTDT wrote:
How attractive you are is secondary to whether they want to form a relationship with a man.
It is reversed for men. Attractiveness comes first, as men aren't as limited by their wife's wealth and status.
This is not much the case anymore in many places.
Looks matters for both now.
There is a new phenomenon. Most of incels (involuntarily celibates) were men. Female incels were rare, but they are becoming more common. It is unattractive to approach a woman. If she doesn't like your appearance, ore does not look at you, don't apporach her. If you do, you are considered a creep.
Women will notice that most of the men no longer approach them. And flirting does no longer mean much. She may like attention. But don't try anything. Those women stay alone and become incels. And men? They are Men Going Their Own Way, MGTOWs.
