NO ASD but social ineptitude in child with NVLD - possible?

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Yesterday, 3:45 am

NVLD objectively without ASD, but with social problems since childhood - possible?

I am interested if there can be a person with NVLD who genuinely does not meet ASD criteria because of too few symptomatology, but has social problems since childhood (especially since not later than from early elementary school age), starting before tenth birthday.

Is the functioning of such a person with NVLD at the level of functioning of someone with clinical ASD level 1 or even ASD level 2 in some more severe cases? Is the general impairment level of such a person with NVLD not approaching the general impairment level of even the most intelligent and communicative persons with clinical ASD level 1?

What and how large support such a person with NVLD can get, especially in USA or Canada? What about his or her adult life? Can such a person with NVLD get SSI or other more significant support, especially in adult life?



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NVLD confuses me. Does it mean a learning disability that makes one non-verbal, or does it mean a learning disability that doesn't affect verbal skills? :scratch:

Anyway, short answer, yes, ND people without autism can be socially impaired, even though nowhere on the internet will clarify this. It seems that a person with intellectual disabilities, or Downs syndrome, are said to be social because they may talk to anyone or may be affectionate. But if a person with autism is friendly to anyone and affectionate? It ain't mentioned, or if it is, they're still socially crap.
But I believe that intellectual disabilities and Downs can still lack the complex social skills that NTs have. They may be more naive, honest, may even miss body language, and have speech impediments and may even be unable to work or live independently and may fit in better with other people like them and be targets for bullies from NTs. These are all grey areas that people often forget about when describing these conditions. In fact a lot of people with autism can learn social skills and mask and change as they grow, while generally a lot of people with DS and LD stay the same from childhood.

I was actually like a child with Downs syndrome when I was a child - I was chatty, affectionate, naive, funny. But because I have AS, nope that doesn't count as being social.


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Yesterday, 6:15 am

Maestro nca,

As you were asking about differences and comparisons between the 2, I looked into NVLD in America and found following comparison table for you;

Language Development
NVLD: Typically strong
ASD Type 1: May be delayed or atypical in early years
Social Motivation
NVLD:Often wants to connect but misreads cues
ASD Type 1:May show less interest in social interaction
Restricted Interests
NVLD:Rare or mild
ASD Type 1:Often intense and focused
Repetitive Behaviors
NVLD:Not typical
ASD Type 1:Common (e.g., hand-flapping, routines)
Recognition
NVLD:Not in DSM-5
ASD Type 1:Officially recognized diagnosis

As for your query on the support expectations in US or Canada, I must unfortunately leave you hanging as I cannot speak to this. My fear is that, since there is no official recognition for it, it will be an uphill battle.

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Dyssemia.
The very trait that impacts nonverbal cues.

And NVLD impacts nonverbal processes.
Thus how or why those with NVLD struggle socially.

It's practically a core trait of NVLD that is easily mistaken for how ASD's nonverbal cues ineptitude (from a variant of cognitive profiles) or cognitive empathy related issues appear to be (primarily in autism).

Autism alone -- not all has dyssemia. In some cases, dyssemia might not even be there at all.

But it'll always be with cases of NVLD.



In short...

While;
Low cognitive empathy = difficulty in social skills and learning it
Dyssemia = difficulty in social skills and learning it

It's just that;
Low cognitive empathy is not dyssemia and vice versa.


I think that's the key; to distinguish whether one's socialization related issues is NVLD, and not just some "autism-looking" issue nor just another "social related issue" associated with the label.


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Yesterday, 10:41 am

Tamaya, kadanuumuu, Edna3362 - thanks for posting.

So dyssemia is impairment in reading or processing visual-spatial, nonverbal informations associated with social sygnals and social communication? NVLD might be considered to be developmental visual-spatial disorder (DVSD) and this visual-spatial difficulties are the cause of social problems of people with NVLD (DVSD) who do not have comorbid ASD? Does visual-spatial skills-related impairments associated with social cues can make a child with NVLD socially inept when he or she is only in preschool age or only in early elementary school age?



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nca14 wrote:
Tamaya, kadanuumuu, Edna3362 - thanks for posting.

So dyssemia is impairment in reading or processing visual-spatial, nonverbal informations associated with social sygnals and social communication?

Very much so.

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NVLD might be considered to be developmental visual-spatial disorder (DVSD) and this visual-spatial difficulties are the cause of social problems of people with NVLD (DVSD) who do not have comorbid ASD?

Yes.

This is why there are seemingly contradictory accounts that there are autistics who can read body language or even focus more on tone. That's because in autism, dyssemia is just a part of one's own particular spiky profile -- if it can resemble NVLD-like, or in completely different reasons other than visio-spatial related issues as to why one have issues with nonverbal components of socialization.

In which because autistics without NVLD can use and very much rely on their visio spatial processing if it's intact, and more -- provided they have the prerequisites to learn and bypass cognitive empathy issues.

I guess in NVLD, it seems that it's largely unexplained.
The usual narrative is around visio spatial processes and learning -- but not about it's consequences and effects beyond academic settings.

It's subtle enough to a point some would mistook NVLD for Asperger's tendencies in lack of speech delay or profiles that favors language processing, and kept contrasting with it.


As an autistic whose cognitive profile is essentially the opposite of NVLD, I very much can understand the distinction.

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Does visual-spatial skills-related impairments associated with social cues can make a child with NVLD socially inept when he or she is only in preschool age or only in early elementary school age?

With support, sure. It can be managed or worked around.
Assuming cases of NVLD and without the autism, it's not the cognitive empathy bit that's the issue and that particular area can be used to work around (predicting, projecting stuff right, etc.).

As usual if left unsupported, it can persist in adulthood. And like those NDs with social anxiety, will "relate well" with autistics.


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