cubedemon6073 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
cubedemon6073 wrote:
Why can't we have civility and courtmanship back like in the old days?
... along with fealty, feifdoms, and enslavement of conquered peoples ...?
No, that's not what I meant. I mean let's get back to actually dating instead of just hooking up and just having sex. I didn't mean to go back to the feudal period.
Courtship is what makes us different than animals. It's makes us gentlemen and ladies as opposed to johns & ( 2 dollar whores who go down on a man just to get a supper or a bit of crack). Today's morality is yesterday's immorality. At one time, the institution of marriage improved your place in society. A woman mentions marriage today and she has to feel like she should be ashamed of herself for even considering it! Women with self-esteem have more control over men than they can possibly imagine. Pigs want sexual conquest because they already know what they are...pigs. That's why they constantly need an ego boost. They "can't" marry because they have no self-worth. What girl in her right mind would marry a pig anyway? Once a pig, ALWAYS a pig. Why should a desirable, "marriageable", woman go spend a fortune on sexy cloths, hang in a nightclub, believe some cheap-assed line and "LET" some slob penetrate her with a promise of a phone call and a "possible" relationship. It will be a "sexual" relationship and nothing more...VERY empty. Lousy sex, a bad reputation, and a waste of time & money are the rewards for not "Loving Yourself" enough to demand a proper courtship. If a guy doesn't want to court a woman, then he should be a man and "pay" for sex instead of "lie" for it like a coward. BUT I don't advocate prostitution because that prostitute is a human being too. I had a male friend (he's not a friend anymore!) who ended up in divorce court because he was "too good" to pay for sex and strung along some broken-hearted fool who confronted his wife because she loved him. He was in it just for the free sex and ego boost. The girl killed herself over the grief but she must of had some sort of mental distortion to tolerate such a relationship. They call these guys "players". Players!! What ever happened to plain old "adulterer"? If that girl wasn't involved in "adultery", maybe she'd be alive today raising her children in a decent relationship. Instead of being dead and "destroying" those who truly loved her. EVERYBODY loses in an adulterous arrangement. Well, the wife of my x-friend
had a brother who was some sort of "Goomba". This goomba had a couple of thugs beat the living daylights out of my x-friend. He was in the hospital for weeks. So, here's a little message for those "players" out there. Watch out, you may bite off far more than you can chew.
08 Jan 2009, 3:06 am
