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31 Jul 2015, 4:48 pm

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I'm sorry, but, to me, that sounds like having your lips cut off to help keep your teeth clean. In other words, noöne would take such a justification seriously if circumcision wasn't already an established practice. No more established than female genital mutilation, by the way.


The only difference is that FGM is taken seriously as a violations - while whenever any man talks about male circ, which is being practiced waaay more, you find women mocking him and repeat those benefits they hear about.



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31 Jul 2015, 4:56 pm

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In most countries, this is what they first do to a one born as male:

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They do not even call it "Male Genital Mutilation"

Unicef does not even list it as a violation to Child protection

http://www.unicef.org/infobycountry/leb ... s.html#121

Male cutting is so outrageously adopted and normalized.


Seriously?

Circumcision happens once, to most men before they are old enough to remember it occurring, it is done by contract between parents and practitioner and it didn't exactly scar you for life mentally though it may have physically.

FGM causes pain throughout life and complicates periods and sex every time.
Rape is a daily threat.
Periods are once a month and very unpleasant.
Childbirth...



Contract my ass.

Men also have daily threats:
Most dangerous jobs are held by men.
Men are sent to wars.
Men's suicide rates is 3-4 times more than women- except in China (because in Chinese culture women are held responsible for the happiness and stability of family; while it's the opposite in the rest of world).
Men victims of sexual assault or domestic violence are mocked and taken less seriously.
80% of homeless are men and they stay homeless longer.
Boys are being discriminated against in school, google it for researches and studies on this.
Men basically don't have the option of being a stay at home parent; and the very few who do that are disrespected.



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31 Jul 2015, 5:02 pm

I'm uncut. Given that a lot of men worry about penis size, why would you advocate reducing what you do have by cutting the end off? It desensitises the glans over time. Yeah you'll stillenjoy having a poke, but youd get more sensation if you were uncut.
I have a regular sex life, hygiene is not an issue, just wash it! No infections or std. Wasn't circumcision in the US a big con started by Kellogg to stop teenagers w*king, and since then it's done "because it's tradition"?
I just don't think it's fair to do it to little kids who don't have a choice in the matter



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31 Jul 2015, 5:09 pm

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Removing breasts decreases breast cancer too .


And beheading is really effective to prevent headaches :lol:


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31 Jul 2015, 5:12 pm

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So guys have trouble picking up a date....girls with their easy picking up of dates are more prone to rape, abuse, being taken advantage of for sex ect. all wonderful things the self identified 'forever alones' should be totally jealous of. Oh yeah geting unsolicitated hits on you from guys twice your age who only want sex is great....let me tell you, so much better than being single not :roll:

Yes, and being rich means you pay more taxes and people resent you. These are problems related to being privileged. It's still far better than the alternative. If you think that being hit on (WITHOUT THEM ASKING PERMISSION NO LESS! OMFG) by older men is worse than not being hit on by anyone, be thankful you weren't born as a man. You have no idea and wouldn't be able to cope.

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I mean really what do you guys think it is we chicks get so easily

No, we know that's the case. You can't act like men don't know how easy you have it because they aren't women in the age of the internet when anyone can pose as either gender and see the results.

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and as if you can go out just dressed in normal casual comfy dress and get a date.....

It's even easier than that. Just make an OKCupid profile. You won't even have to leave the house.

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no women are expected to have make up on, wear an outfit that compliments their figure, or use weird undergarmet items to make your body appear more appealing as in the hour glass shape.

Women aren't 'expected' to have a better appearance than men are when it comes to dating. Fat, ugly women have it much easier than their male counterparts. Once again, all you have to do is create an OKCupid profile or go on Tinder.

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Oh and its rude for a women to get offended by some street a** saying 'hey baby you're hot' when they are just trying to go about their buisiness......oh yes women have it so f*****g easy compared to men in all circumstances ever.

A "problem" related to how easy you have it. Validation is so common for you that you don't even appreciate it and in fact it's become an irritation. It's like saying that having an abundance of food in America is a problem because there are too many types of cereal on the shelves.



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31 Jul 2015, 5:19 pm

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Another good reason to have a six month rule. A 19 year old has to be on the sex offender list for the next 25 years and he is on probation for five years and he cannot have internet access or a smart phone so there went his computer career he was going to college for and he has other restrictions. How did this all happen? He met a 17 year old on a dating site and they met up and had sex in a park and it turned out she was 14 and she had lied about her age. She and her parents did testify in court and they didn't wish t press charges but the judge didn't care. Yes wait six months so you get to know the person. That should be plenty of time. Plenty of time to meet their parents or their brothers and sisters, see their house, etc.

http://abcnews.go.com/US/19-year-spend- ... d=32783206


Why six months? True love waits, doesn't it? Then wait eighteen years. No matter whether they lied about their age, they'll be guaranteed not to be a minor by the time you have sex with them.


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31 Jul 2015, 5:24 pm

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No s**t.... did I say males cannot be abused by women? weird you assume that is my message when I have not posted anything that even pertains to that view point. Anyways this thread is not about the difficulties males face no offense, but rather difficulties women face when dating, that was more the idea of the thread.

No, the very title of the thread says 'worse', which means you're comparing. The content of your first post makes comparisons too. So yes, the far greater difficulties that men face are completely relevant to this thread.

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Oh and its kind of a cheeky response to recent threads about how 'all' women have it easier than 'all' men when it comes to dating.

You conveniently picked a very easy point to argue against; one I haven't even heard. If it has been said it's rare. What I say, for example, is that you have it way easier than your male equivalent and you should be very thankful you weren't born a man.



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31 Jul 2015, 5:30 pm

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I'm glad somebody FINALLY came out with something like this. Girls have it so bad, did we mention what we have to go through every month? Plus we have more to cover up about ourselves.

Guys; you think you're tough? Have you ever experienced menstruation? No? Childbirth then???
It is said that when a woman goes through childbirth, the level of pain goes past the average human pain threshold.

Who says girls have it easier???? :|


Considering that men and women have completely different roles in the reproductive process, and are raised in different worlds with different frames of reference, I've always found the, "Who has it easier?" question to be nonsensical.

Additionally, as someone who has lived through social situations as both a man and a woman, I can assert that both have significant drawbacks.....


This. These topics just keep arising.

That's because men who post these, can't get girlfriends. They will keep arising.

Exactly. It seems like some people are irritated by this. I guess talking about my pain irritates you. Try having it.



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31 Jul 2015, 5:35 pm

^ Americans should promote for the real basic toilet hygiene which is adopted by the most of the rest of the world(ie. use of bidet, washing genitals after peeing,..etc) ; except their forefathers in UK - instead of promoting cutting penises in the name hygiene.

The only reason for male circumcision; it's a Jewish trademark tradition; and Protestants, being the closest Christian denomination to Jews, have inherited this practice and strongly resists to its stop.

Like in the MEA, It's a cultural thing seeking desperately for a medical justification.

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I'm uncut. Given that a lot of men worry about penis size, why would you advocate reducing what you do have by cutting the end off? It desensitises the glans over time. Yeah you'll stillenjoy having a poke, but youd get more sensation if you were uncut.
I have a regular sex life, hygiene is not an issue, just wash it! No infections or std. Wasn't circumcision in the US a big con started by Kellogg to stop teenagers w*king, and since then it's done "because it's tradition"?
I just don't think it's fair to do it to little kids who don't have a choice in the matter



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31 Jul 2015, 6:33 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Americans should promote for the real basic toilet hygiene which is adopted by the most of the rest of the world(ie. use of bidet, washing genitals after peeing,..etc) ; except their forefathers in UK - instead of promoting cutting penises in the name hygiene.

The only reason for male circumcision; it's a Jewish trademark tradition; and Protestants, being the closest Christian denomination to Jews, have inherited this practice and strongly resists to its stop.

Like in the MEA, It's a cultural thing seeking desperately for a medical justification.
Oman5 wrote:
I'm uncut. Given that a lot of men worry about penis size, why would you advocate reducing what you do have by cutting the end off? It desensitises the glans over time. Yeah you'll stillenjoy having a poke, but youd get more sensation if you were uncut.
I have a regular sex life, hygiene is not an issue, just wash it! No infections or std. Wasn't circumcision in the US a big con started by Kellogg to stop teenagers w*king, and since then it's done "because it's tradition"?
I just don't think it's fair to do it to little kids who don't have a choice in the matter


Circumcision is usually done for hygeine purposes according to the medical profession. I don't have any children, however, if I did I wouldn't have them circumcised - I would leave it up to them. I doubt they would do it later in life though. I have heard if not cleaned well it can be a source of infection (like UTI) for women as well as the man. I also read something a long time ago that sometimes boys get teased about not being circumcised in school - when they change for gym. Is that true?


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31 Jul 2015, 6:38 pm

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^ Americans should promote for the real basic toilet hygiene which is adopted by the most of the rest of the world(ie. use of bidet, washing genitals after peeing,..etc) ; except their forefathers in UK - instead of promoting cutting penises in the name hygiene.

The only reason for male circumcision; it's a Jewish trademark tradition; and Protestants, being the closest Christian denomination to Jews, have inherited this practice and strongly resists to its stop.

Like in the MEA, It's a cultural thing seeking desperately for a medical justification.
Oman5 wrote:
I'm uncut. Given that a lot of men worry about penis size, why would you advocate reducing what you do have by cutting the end off? It desensitises the glans over time. Yeah you'll stillenjoy having a poke, but youd get more sensation if you were uncut.
I have a regular sex life, hygiene is not an issue, just wash it! No infections or std. Wasn't circumcision in the US a big con started by Kellogg to stop teenagers w*king, and since then it's done "because it's tradition"?
I just don't think it's fair to do it to little kids who don't have a choice in the matter


Circumcision is usually done for hygeine purposes according to the medical profession. I don't have any children, however, if I did I wouldn't have them circumcised - I would leave it up to them. I doubt they would do it later in life though. I have heard if not cleaned well it can be a source of infection (like UTI) for women as well as the man. I also read something a long time ago that sometimes boys get teased about not being circumcised in school - when they change for gym. Is that true?

sexual partners of uncircumcised men are more likely to get cervical cancer. learned that at pitt med school.



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31 Jul 2015, 6:46 pm

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Americans should promote for the real basic toilet hygiene which is adopted by the most of the rest of the world(ie. use of bidet, washing genitals after peeing,..etc) ; except their forefathers in UK - instead of promoting cutting penises in the name hygiene.

The only reason for male circumcision; it's a Jewish trademark tradition; and Protestants, being the closest Christian denomination to Jews, have inherited this practice and strongly resists to its stop.

Like in the MEA, It's a cultural thing seeking desperately for a medical justification.
Oman5 wrote:
I'm uncut. Given that a lot of men worry about penis size, why would you advocate reducing what you do have by cutting the end off? It desensitises the glans over time. Yeah you'll stillenjoy having a poke, but youd get more sensation if you were uncut.
I have a regular sex life, hygiene is not an issue, just wash it! No infections or std. Wasn't circumcision in the US a big con started by Kellogg to stop teenagers w*king, and since then it's done "because it's tradition"?
I just don't think it's fair to do it to little kids who don't have a choice in the matter


Circumcision is usually done for hygeine purposes according to the medical profession. I don't have any children, however, if I did I wouldn't have them circumcised - I would leave it up to them. I doubt they would do it later in life though. I have heard if not cleaned well it can be a source of infection (like UTI) for women as well as the man. I also read something a long time ago that sometimes boys get teased about not being circumcised in school - when they change for gym. Is that true?

sexual partners of uncircumcised men are more likely to get cervical cancer. learned that at pitt med school.


Interesting. Then they have that vaccine for cervical cancer that I heard wasn't doing too well.


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31 Jul 2015, 6:56 pm

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I'm glad somebody FINALLY came out with something like this. Girls have it so bad, did we mention what we have to go through every month? Plus we have more to cover up about ourselves.

Guys; you think you're tough? Have you ever experienced menstruation? No? Childbirth then???
It is said that when a woman goes through childbirth, the level of pain goes past the average human pain threshold.

Who says girls have it easier???? :|


Considering that men and women have completely different roles in the reproductive process, and are raised in different worlds with different frames of reference, I've always found the, "Who has it easier?" question to be nonsensical.

Additionally, as someone who has lived through social situations as both a man and a woman, I can assert that both have significant drawbacks.....


Exactly why I posted this thread....lol when it comes down to it neither one actually has it 'easier' such arguments are rather stupid I mean with any difficulty a male says they have, a female could come up with a different one they face and vice versa. Also dependending on the individual they might find a specific thing more or less difficult than another person would find it to be But the menstruation cycle and child-birth is certainly another good example of a difficulty women face than men don't.


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31 Jul 2015, 7:02 pm

With regards to the circumcision issue, it's fine to get circumcised voluntarily when you're smart enough to make that decision. It's not fine to mutilate a child and cause him pain when he's still a baby. There's a reason some countries ban it.



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31 Jul 2015, 7:03 pm

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Another good reason to have a six month rule. A 19 year old has to be on the sex offender list for the next 25 years and he is on probation for five years and he cannot have internet access or a smart phone so there went his computer career he was going to college for and he has other restrictions. How did this all happen? He met a 17 year old on a dating site and they met up and had sex in a park and it turned out she was 14 and she had lied about her age. She and her parents did testify in court and they didn't wish t press charges but the judge didn't care. Yes wait six months so you get to know the person. That should be plenty of time. Plenty of time to meet their parents or their brothers and sisters, see their house, etc.

http://abcnews.go.com/US/19-year-spend- ... d=32783206


Well that is certainly a ruling I'd not agree with....that said does one really need 6 whole months to accomplish getting to know someone better and meet their parents/family as well as see their house? But yes just to be safe it is always best to be sure a girl is 'of age'...nonetheless they should not face the same charges and terrible record as a freaking pedophile/child predator which is what it seems has happened to the guy in your example.


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I'm glad somebody FINALLY came out with something like this. Girls have it so bad, did we mention what we have to go through every month? Plus we have more to cover up about ourselves.

Guys; you think you're tough? Have you ever experienced menstruation? No? Childbirth then???
It is said that when a woman goes through childbirth, the level of pain goes past the average human pain threshold.

Who says girls have it easier???? :|


Considering that men and women have completely different roles in the reproductive process, and are raised in different worlds with different frames of reference, I've always found the, "Who has it easier?" question to be nonsensical.

Additionally, as someone who has lived through social situations as both a man and a woman, I can assert that both have significant drawbacks.....


Exactly why I posted this thread....lol when it comes down to it neither one actually has it 'easier' such arguments are rather stupid I mean with any difficulty a male says they have, a female could come up with a different one they face and vice versa. Also dependending on the individual they might find a specific thing more or less difficult than another person would find it to be But the menstruation cycle and child-birth is certainly another good example of a difficulty women face than men don't.

Respond to my posts then.