I sometimes thought I should have been British as well, since I was nine, but am not so sure.
Part of it may be that many of us with AS love big words and formal speech, which sounds 'British' to many Americans, which in some ways they still look up to*. That's why I gravitated to it - anglophilia was my way of trying to fit in! (Based on how I already naturally sound.)
I've lived my dream - I actually emigrated and lived there a while, in Oxford. It didn't go as well as I might have wanted but now I understand why.
Based on what I remember and what I know now about AS, considering that 25 years ago nobody including over there understood AS, I might have been worse off growing up there. As much as I love tradition, etc., the rigidity of the system and reserve of the culture might have worked against me.
(Most of us wouldn't fit in with the football fans and other blokes at the local.)
That said I obviously still like the country and people very much and have been back to visit.
I like London - like New York it's probably a risky place for an AS person to live and work on his own but as a visitor it's so big and there's so much there (both New York and London are world-class cities) that anybody, AS or not, can find a niche - your own private London if you will.
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I was born at Teesside where the director Ridley Scott found inspiration for the opening scene of Bladerunner.
Had a friend from there and have been - nice people. It's friendly up north.
*It's a love/hate thing in the States as indeed it is in Britain now. Posh speech often gets made fun of - 'Frasier Crane' on American TV was a recent example. But when I was nine I didn't quite understand that. Still, that's part of who I am, whether I'm being affected or not, and that's great. Some of my favourite models for speech are Canadians like Robert MacNeil and Peter Jennings, who speak something halfway between standard American and the BBC model (leaning more towards the first) without sounding snooty like Frasier comically did. I sound too Californian though - like the Beach Boys, not a surfer dude. I'd pay some Henry Higgins to get that tone out of my speech. In the UK turning down the volume of my voice by about a third seems to work well. Doing my best BBC/Patrick Stewart impression I could probably pass for English in maybe Arkansas and nowhere else.