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30 Mar 2025, 11:01 pm

AsaboveAsbelow wrote:
Is something I had noticed in ASD community, they are using ASD as an excuse.
Now, except you are level 3, there's no much link with failing and ASD.
Especially level 1 is unlinked but is also unlinked with being successful.
But I had read and listen many psychologists/psychiatrists even say it.

It is a disability level 1 and 2 talking about society and being socializable, but for myself I'm charismatic.

I don't understand victimism.
Take me, I could had a victimism and I surely had many stuffs bad starting from bullism ending with not find a job just because "weird" (I can study and work greatly and I do learn fast) but if I would had been a victimist I wouldn't go no where.

My life is actually alike the Girlmoor Girls even in how the plot ended, except my mom is happily single as I'm, as how I work and how she is work... I'm like them only because I never gave up and that's a realistic portrait of women's real life!

Victimism is raising and is bad. Is bad because is raising jealousy and envy and it is raising hate on social networks.
That is why movements such as woke and me too whom where supposed to be great ended so bad.

Victimism doesn't got excuse, it isn't ableism or victim shaming... I had always fight but I always forced people to give me an equal treatment and gave me ways to fight.
At job I've got this and I treat people as my equals as they do.
I work hard but I explain how my brain works.

That's why I don't understand this victimism.

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Now, if a person wouldn't accept other's limitation is ableism and not respectful... even if that person is neurotypical.


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31 Mar 2025, 1:15 am

AsaboveAsbelow wrote:
Did you ever studied how works mental health or you are speaking about preconcepts?
A) get a diagnosis; B) work on this; C) manage it; D) you could not erased this but you can manage it.

Sorry but I cannot stand ignorance... since I guess a person with a degree doesn't study for nothing.
At this point we don't get to hospital, we will live without electricity... in the end why and what is the sense of evolve?
I mean get to delete whole the evolution we got in our society.
I mean go with Scientology and erase psychiatry... "ASD isn't like cancer", no but you can erase most of issues since stand alone ASD is neutral.

But ok, psychiatry is useless and DSM V is useless.
University are useless and psychiatric are just loosers.

Ok. You are right.
But if I'm sick I will go to my doctor.
If I take a medicine I will check and ask my doctor.

But keep going on with refuse it... are choice.

If I'm in a bad period I would say is better asking help... but are choice. People got a degree but you are right degrees are useless.

To me, my own ASD is truely neutral.

And the source of my executive dysfunction since teenage years isn't an inherent part of my neurodivergence.
It's from an injury from a more biophysical crap that's been untreated.

Said biophysical crap that gave me more dysfunctional is being blamed for me being autistic. :roll:

When I was improving, it's not because I became less autistic, but because I no longer deal with more of that crap that had nothing to do with autism.

Oh sure, people will kept saying it because of autism I cannot cope :roll: in reality, it took 25+ years of finding the right medication for this particular crap to make it actually manageable.

And when I did improve? You know what some people say, that I grew??? That I got desensitized? Or worse, my autism became weaker? :roll:

Uhh, no.
I'm not working out my autism, I'm working out the untreated crap that's been affecting my decisions, my thoughts and feelings for the last 25 years or so.

Autism, to me, is a more passive magnifier that makes me more or less inclined to particular things.

My own autism is not a set of circumstances and life patterns that too many autistics are too prone to have.

Said patterns, I genuinely thought it's cultural.
Turns out, that maybe, I am a different human deep down regardless of whatever traits I get.

Didn't matter if I were socially awkward or charismatic, emotional or unemotional, with or without learning disabilities of whatever cognitive profiles, sensitive or hyposensitive...

It mattered if I can work against social dynamics of whatever social status I have, discern myself truer, be able to work around in mediums to ways I understand more, and actually live or exist well in ways I can tolerate or even more.

That I may have the same sets of antecedents, but with completely different sets of reactions and consequences.

Too many accounts kept being too focus over their social failures or their intolerance to environment that they cannot adjust.

Because they're all reacting like any typical human who happened to be autistic.
Some of them even think that human is the NT in them.

I do not believe in the hidden NT inside an autistic. Only human. And I am not a typical human who happened to be autistic.


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