who here on WP has a sense of purpose in life?

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who here has a sense of purpose in life?
i do. :bounce: 44%  44%  [ 37 ]
i used to. life got in the way. :| 17%  17%  [ 14 ]
i don't. :| 12%  12%  [ 10 ]
what's a sense of purpose? :scratch: 10%  10%  [ 8 ]
where's my dark chocolate ice cream? :chef: 18%  18%  [ 15 ]
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28 May 2019, 5:58 am

What gives me a sense of purpose is finding ways to make the world a better place for myself and at least some other people. Sometimes this has meant political activism. Sometimes this has meant providing some service (e.g. creating a website or leading meetings of some in-person group) pertaining to whatever oddball subculture I happened to be involved in at the time.

Lately I've been reading up on both the autistic community and the larger autism community (autistics plus the mostly-NT parents/families/partners/etc. groups plus professionals) and thinking a lot about what sorts of things I could possibly do to help build the autistic community. More about this later, in some other thread.


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28 May 2019, 6:10 am

^^^^my inept attempts at "building up the autistic community" was like trying to herd cats. i trust that you are more talented at this than i am.



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28 May 2019, 8:36 am

auntblabby wrote:
^^^^my inept attempts at "building up the autistic community" was like trying to herd cats. i trust that you are more talented at this than i am.

Since further discussion about building up the autistic community would probably be off-topic for this thread, I've replied in a separate new thread Building the autistic community?


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28 May 2019, 9:48 am

I have been able to herd cats quite effectively. One of my cats, Samantha, actually waited for me to come upstairs with her. She was a very rare and special cat.



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28 May 2019, 10:25 am

auntblabby wrote:
^^^^my inept attempts at "building up the autistic community" was like trying to herd cats. i trust that you are more talented at this than i am.


I second that advice on getting a hobby. My workshop is between my kitchen/bath area, and my bed/study area, and for years, I only had a path through a store room. I had been planning to continue work on some big projects, but got too depressed. Finally, I cleared a little space for art metalwork, the craft I enjoy most. It took years, but I'm building things of possible significance again.



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29 May 2019, 4:30 am

Dear_one wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
^^^^my inept attempts at "building up the autistic community" was like trying to herd cats. i trust that you are more talented at this than i am.


I second that advice on getting a hobby. My workshop is between my kitchen/bath area, and my bed/study area, and for years, I only had a path through a store room. I had been planning to continue work on some big projects, but got too depressed. Finally, I cleared a little space for art metalwork, the craft I enjoy most. It took years, but I'm building things of possible significance again.

since my last puter died a few months back, i really need to get hopping on reinstalling my audio restoration software and configuring it to work properly again, so i can get back to fixing records.



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29 May 2019, 4:30 am

IstominFan wrote:
I have been able to herd cats quite effectively. One of my cats, Samantha, actually waited for me to come upstairs with her. She was a very rare and special cat.

she sounds like a keeper :cat:



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29 May 2019, 9:23 am

She was a wonderful cat and my best friend for 20 years. Samantha was the one who started my love of Siamese cats.



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30 May 2019, 3:20 am

i haven't even seen a purebred siamese since about 1969.



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30 May 2019, 9:17 am

Samantha wasn't a purebred Siamese. She was a tabby/Siamese mix, known as a Lynx point. I have had two of these beautiful cats.



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30 May 2019, 1:45 pm

False sense of purpose

False hope

False sense of security



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30 May 2019, 6:42 pm

I do. But without the bouncy emoji.


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30 May 2019, 7:28 pm

foreign languages and cultures are of increasingly strong interest... thinking to study to become an interpreter, but wouldn’t know if that’ll open enough doors to sense purpose.


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31 May 2019, 3:59 am

IstominFan wrote:
Samantha wasn't a purebred Siamese. She was a tabby/Siamese mix, known as a Lynx point. I have had two of these beautiful cats.

exotic :cat: