Does anyone else not like the term 'aspie'?

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05 Nov 2010, 8:41 pm

Asperger's isn't new to me. I've been familiar with it for about a year or so now. It feels like longer.

I just don't feel the need to call myself an 'aspie.' I don't really use it as my own self identity. It's kind of weird seeing people online use the term, but I don't mind it. Calling myself an aspie however...I just wouldn't be comfortable with it. It's like putting the diagnoses before the personality/identity. For me, aspergers is pretty similar to a personality. I don't see myself as different from anyone else. I consider myself pretty 'normal' as everyone else is quirky too. Just in different areas. I have problems socializing...but so do a lot of other young adults. I'm myself with aspergers, not the other way around.

Just ranting a little bit how I feel towards it. I don't see it as a big deal just not for me. Wondering if anyone else thought similar to me?



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05 Nov 2010, 8:48 pm

Yes!

"Aspie", "Aspiegian" and whatnot are pure drivel as far as I'm concerned.



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05 Nov 2010, 9:19 pm

"aspie" is nowhere near as bad as some other things i have been called.



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05 Nov 2010, 9:24 pm

I can't stand it either.


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05 Nov 2010, 9:35 pm

I hate the word "Asperger's". It just doesn't... ugh.

I hate "Aspie" as well, because the obscenity of choice still remains in the name.

I kind of anticipate the day when Asperger's is merged in with Autism. Autism has it's own stigma, but at least it isn't an ugly word. :/



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05 Nov 2010, 9:39 pm

The person who first documented the symptoms of Asperger Syndrome was Hans Asperger.

If only his surname was something like Einstein, then we'd be called people with "Einstein Syndrome", sounds a lot less vulnerable to teasing :D



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05 Nov 2010, 9:39 pm

The term doesn't bother me at all. I am what I am, or a rose by any other name is still a rose.


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05 Nov 2010, 9:42 pm

I say "aspie" because it's shorter than saying "someone with Asperger's Syndrome".
Besides, I'd rather have others call me an aspie than a ret*d.



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05 Nov 2010, 9:57 pm

It's better than being called ret*d.


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05 Nov 2010, 10:31 pm

AspieWolf wrote:
The term doesn't bother me at all. I am what I am, or a rose by any other name is still a rose.


+1 When I found out about Asperger's, it was actually a relief. I went so many years not understanding why I am the way I am and why I have difficulties in certain areas.

Even better, I also found out that there are many people like me! :) I don't mind being an "Aspie" one bit.


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05 Nov 2010, 11:08 pm

I'm not fond of "aspie". If someone ever called me an aspie, I'd politely ask them to never do it again. If someone ever called me an aspergian, I'd probably forget my manners.

My diagnosis has precious little to do with how I define myself. I had myself diagnosed in order to better receive help with my difficulties, not because I needed an explanation or a justification for who I was and am. In terms of how I view myself, my diagnosis changed nothing.



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05 Nov 2010, 11:12 pm

I tolerate it, but I really don't like it. I'm just Landon.


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05 Nov 2010, 11:14 pm

FlintsDoorknob wrote:
Asperger's isn't new to me. I've been familiar with it for about a year or so now. It feels like longer.

I just don't feel the need to call myself an 'aspie.' I don't really use it as my own self identity. It's kind of weird seeing people online use the term, but I don't mind it. Calling myself an aspie however...I just wouldn't be comfortable with it. It's like putting the diagnoses before the personality/identity. For me, aspergers is pretty similar to a personality. I don't see myself as different from anyone else. I consider myself pretty 'normal' as everyone else is quirky too. Just in different areas. I have problems socializing...but so do a lot of other young adults. I'm myself with aspergers, not the other way around.

Just ranting a little bit how I feel towards it. I don't see it as a big deal just not for me. Wondering if anyone else thought similar to me?


Agreed. Aspie sounds really lame IMO which is why this is the first time you'll ever hear me use the word.



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05 Nov 2010, 11:51 pm

I like aspie. It's a simple way to refer to people with Asperger's Syndrome when it is being discussed.

I do not think it is appropriate to single someone out and call them an aspie, though.



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06 Nov 2010, 12:06 am

when i picture the word aspie i see a white pasty thin incompetent guy for some reason. :o



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06 Nov 2010, 12:08 am

Corp900 wrote:
when i picture the word aspie i see a white pasty thin incompetent guy for some reason. :o


:lmao:


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