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CryingTears15
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05 Feb 2016, 4:07 pm

I just don't know what my standards should be. :o



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05 Feb 2016, 4:10 pm

Hard to tell from a single photo like that, though from that I'd say yes.



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05 Feb 2016, 4:45 pm

Yes, you are very pretty.



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05 Feb 2016, 4:47 pm

I do put on makeup. Yet, I consider myself attractive without it, at least on good days.

I think for me, the key to attractiveness is clear skin.



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05 Feb 2016, 4:53 pm

This will sound shallow, but I wonder why no one has approached me? Especially boys. If it's true that boys go for any attractive girl, my introversion and oddness shouldn't faze them. :T

I mean, some boys stare, but I don't care about that.



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05 Feb 2016, 4:54 pm

CryingTears15 wrote:
I do put on makeup. Yet, I consider myself attractive without it, at least on good days.

I think for me, the key to attractiveness is clear skin.


I'm having a crush on a guy at a coffee house, I believe he is interested in me too & I don't wear any makeup.



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05 Feb 2016, 4:58 pm

Holy attractive .

Really pretty women are seen as unobtainable by most men. So we won't waste our time trying. You'd most likely just reject us and we'd feel humiliated.

Not really your fault, but likely the reason.

Other thing is also it's assumed since you're pretty you already have a bf. And asking you ask risks infuriating him.



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05 Feb 2016, 5:00 pm

I think you're beautiful! You're eyes are so large and soulful! :)


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05 Feb 2016, 5:23 pm

I do like makeup, I get a nice sensory experience from my current eyeshadow, all shades of blue and grey.

I think me with makeup is a truer expression of me. It represents me on the inside, my tastes, my skills, my desires. Instead of the natural outside that I have no control over. Aren't our minds our true selves? I should think so, when in fiction people swap bodies, their minds are what determines who they are.

I wish others saw it like that, too.



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05 Feb 2016, 5:29 pm

You're a heck of a lot better looking than me--that's for sure!



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05 Feb 2016, 5:30 pm

its hard to judge someone from just one pic, but yeah you look fine :)
I think you know that.



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05 Feb 2016, 5:39 pm

I think it sometimes. But actually, I was honestly beginning to doubt myself right now. I thought that I was secretly ugly, because no one showed interest in me.

I have mastered looking confident on camera, though. You have to scrunch your eyes a bit when you smile.



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05 Feb 2016, 5:42 pm

Having confidence DOES make people better-looking.



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05 Feb 2016, 5:46 pm

CryingTears15 wrote:
I think it sometimes. But actually, I was honestly beginning to doubt myself right now. I thought that I was secretly ugly, because no one showed interest in me.

I have mastered looking confident on camera, though. You have to scrunch your eyes a bit when you smile.

Well i hope this topic will give you a confidence boost then, since im pretty sure everyone here think you look fine d:

And do you look insecure IRL? because that might be a reason why guys dont approach you, since it might look like you just want to be left alone, even if thats not the case.. I think that happends to a lot pretty aspie girls?



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05 Feb 2016, 5:46 pm

You're in no way ugly

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05 Feb 2016, 5:52 pm

You look like somebody I know. That person is very attractive.