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serenaserenaserena
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03 May 2017, 12:48 am

Shout out to the autistic people who get looked at like we’re coocoo when we mention we have autism, followed by statements of disbelief.

Shout out to the autistic people who do so well to cope with certain things that are harder due to autism, but get harsh reactions when we do slip up.

Shout out to the autistic people who do socially unacceptable things in public and don’t understand why they’re “bad” and don’t notice that we’re doing them until pointed out by an embarrassed individual.

Shout out to the autistic people who go nonverbal when overwhelmed or upset and get fussed at by people who think we are rudely “ignoring” them.

Shout out to the autistic people who are completely nonverbal and have to deal with people acting like you’re not even there sometimes.

Shout out to the autistic people who need and IEP in school but don’t get one because they are “too high functioning” in certain areas.

Shout out to the autistic people who are in special ed and are seen as either less of a person, or someone people have to be especially friendly to (in a very fake way) because you’re “special needs.”

Shout out to the autistic people who automatically stim distractingly, even when around other people, and have trouble controlling it.

Shout out to the autistic people who can’t stand certain foods because of the texture or the way it feels when you chew it, and people who cook for us get very irritated and tell us to stop being “picky.”

Shout out to the autistic people who are very smart in their area of interest, but the topic isn’t something that is socially considered a “smart topic,” so it feels like we’re not smart at all.

Shout out to the autistic people who were earplugs or sound cancelling headphones to help with overstimulation and get fussed at to take them out/off.

Shout out to the autistic people who can’t stand to have long hair because feeling our hair touch our necks is sensory hell. (Or not wanting it long because it takes longer to dry, and the water dripping onto your neck is sensory hell.)

Shout out to the autistic people who can’t stand showers most of the time because of the way the water sprays on our skin (from most shower heads), being sensory hell.

Shout out to the autistic people who were diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome and never hear the end of people telling us “it’s only Asperger’s!”

Shout out to the autistic people who want a cure for their autism and may feel guilty because a lot of autistic people don’t want a cure. (It’s perfectly okay to want a cure; you can always speak for yourself, just not others.)

Shout out to EVERY AUTISTIC PERSON who has ever been treated as if we are invalid, a burden, or treated anything different from the way we should be treated and seen.

Most of the people who don’t treat us right really do love us; it’s just hard for them to adjust to us, just as it is hard for us to adjust to them.

The issue is, people try to make us do all the adjusting, when we all need to adjust to each other.

I love you; have a great day.


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03 May 2017, 1:12 am

Thank you!
I really appreaciate this.


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03 May 2017, 1:29 am

"Shouting" at people with autism... :lol:



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03 May 2017, 4:19 am

serenaserenaserena wrote:
Shout out to the autistic people who get looked at like we’re coocoo when we mention we have autism, followed by statements of disbelief.

Shout out to the autistic people who do so well to cope with certain things that are harder due to autism, but get harsh reactions when we do slip up.

Shout out to the autistic people who do socially unacceptable things in public and don’t understand why they’re “bad” and don’t notice that we’re doing them until pointed out by an embarrassed individual.

Shout out to the autistic people who go nonverbal when overwhelmed or upset and get fussed at by people who think we are rudely “ignoring” them.

Shout out to the autistic people who are completely nonverbal and have to deal with people acting like you’re not even there sometimes.

Shout out to the autistic people who need and IEP in school but don’t get one because they are “too high functioning” in certain areas.

Shout out to the autistic people who are in special ed and are seen as either less of a person, or someone people have to be especially friendly to (in a very fake way) because you’re “special needs.”

Shout out to the autistic people who automatically stim distractingly, even when around other people, and have trouble controlling it.

Shout out to the autistic people who can’t stand certain foods because of the texture or the way it feels when you chew it, and people who cook for us get very irritated and tell us to stop being “picky.”

Shout out to the autistic people who are very smart in their area of interest, but the topic isn’t something that is socially considered a “smart topic,” so it feels like we’re not smart at all.

Shout out to the autistic people who were earplugs or sound cancelling headphones to help with overstimulation and get fussed at to take them out/off.

Shout out to the autistic people who can’t stand to have long hair because feeling our hair touch our necks is sensory hell. (Or not wanting it long because it takes longer to dry, and the water dripping onto your neck is sensory hell.)

Shout out to the autistic people who can’t stand showers most of the time because of the way the water sprays on our skin (from most shower heads), being sensory hell.

Shout out to the autistic people who were diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome and never hear the end of people telling us “it’s only Asperger’s!”

Shout out to the autistic people who want a cure for their autism and may feel guilty because a lot of autistic people don’t want a cure. (It’s perfectly okay to want a cure; you can always speak for yourself, just not others.)

Shout out to EVERY AUTISTIC PERSON who has ever been treated as if we are invalid, a burden, or treated anything different from the way we should be treated and seen.

Most of the people who don’t treat us right really do love us; it’s just hard for them to adjust to us, just as it is hard for us to adjust to them.

The issue is, people try to make us do all the adjusting, when we all need to adjust to each other.

I love you; have a great day.


Shout out to you for posting this.


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03 May 2017, 2:23 pm

Great post! Thank you :heart:


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03 May 2017, 5:59 pm

Shout out to people like me who just spent 5 minutes trying to figure out what "shout out" means and later realized that their autism is showing. :lol:



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04 May 2017, 1:43 am

AshtenS wrote:
Shout out to people like me who just spent 5 minutes trying to figure out what "shout out" means and later realized that their autism is showing. :lol:

This ^^^

I was once watching a news report on the NHS where they reported that "the NHS has lost <n> number of patients" and I thought that they had actually lost them somehow. My wife had to explain that they meant that they had died. I really hate death euphemisms. If they are dead please say dead, not "passed" or "lost".


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04 May 2017, 11:19 am

liveandrew wrote:
AshtenS wrote:
Shout out to people like me who just spent 5 minutes trying to figure out what "shout out" means and later realized that their autism is showing. :lol:

This ^^^

I was once watching a news report on the NHS where they reported that "the NHS has lost <n> number of patients" and I thought that they had actually lost them somehow. My wife had to explain that they meant that they had died. I really hate death euphemisms. If they are dead please say dead, not "passed" or "lost".


Haha.

I once worked in a music equipment store and got a phone call where the person asked if they could speak to the 'Hire' department. So I promptly sent there call through to the shop located above the music store because it was a 'Higher' department. I never thought anything of it haha.



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04 May 2017, 11:43 am

serenaserenaserena wrote:
Shout out to the autistic people who get looked at like we’re coocoo when we mention we have autism, followed by statements of disbelief....

Haha! This happened to me last week. I was attending my mother at a hospital visit, and I noticed that her physician is a noted state senator. I thanked him for his work in autism legislation (even though he ignored my suggested amendment to prohibit aversive therapies). He displayed an inflection in his voice that seemed to me to indicate surprise when he replied "really?" when I told him that I am autistic. He is about my age or slightly younger. His work with autism probably involved many child autists and their parents. So, yes, I suspect that I am the first adult autist he has met who is his age peer. I then told him about a couple other legislative bills on which I suggested successful amendments. He seemed ... surprised. :wink:


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04 May 2017, 3:46 pm

serenaserenaserena wrote:
The issue is, people try to make us do all the adjusting, when we all need to adjust to each other.


I agree, serenaserenaserena. I believe this applies to all disabilities, disadvantages, or differences. The person interacting with us are "inconvenienced" for the duration of the interaction. While we are "burdened" for much, most, the rest of, or all of our lives.


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