Worried about rushing into a relationship

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I seem to have developed an attraction to someone who works in a coffee shop near where I work, a few times I've said Hi and How are you to her and yesterday she came in looking for something and assisting with what she was looking for. I also complemented about how lovely she is but I felt stupid afterwards because I didn't tell her my name and ask for hers.

I also feel having been used to being single for a long time, I'm used to it and sometimes like doing things on my own. I am a bit worried that if I get into a relationship now there will be pressure to settle down soon or talk of having kids will arise when I'm probably not very interested in having my own children. It makes me feel bad as though I had all the 20s to think about these things and I wasn't even thinking about it one bit even when I had met someone then.