Feel like the only one who has less major life experiences

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chris1989
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Joined: 2 Aug 2018
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,550
Location: Kent, UK

25 Jul 2026, 9:59 am

I do find a part of myself sometimes getting frustrated with thoughts trying to be like everyone else and I am aware it's not getting me anywhere or doing any good. But it really is hard.

I'm nearly constantly bombarded with the thought I should have moved out even though I like living where I am at the moment. I remember someone saying in his mid 30s he had moved about 12 times in ten years. I've never moved out on my own. I've only ever owned one car and not had any others in 7 or 8 years. I have one paid job but have never worked two or more jobs or full time, along with other life stages I've mentioned in previous threads like long term relationships and so on.