Do you hate it when people don't believe you?

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22 Aug 2008, 12:38 am

It really bothers me for some reason. I find it upsetting. On IM instead of getting all worked up about it, I just say "bye" when I get called a liar. That's how much I hate them when they don't believe me when I am not even lying. That's probably the reason why I am gullible because I don't like it when people don't believe me when I am not lying, so therefore I don't do it to others. I will not think someone is lying unless there is proof. If it sounds bull what they said, I will question them first because maybe there is an explanation for something and I am missing something. Also they could be exaggerating too or kidding. Oh yeah I do suspect someone is lying but I don't say anything because what if they are telling the truth, then I am a dumb ass.
There have been times too when I think someone is lying, like my first boyfriend for example.
I still feel like a dumb ass when I thought someone was lying but I never told them I think they are but then I find out they were being truthful or might have been. :oops:


Anyone else have this problem?



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22 Aug 2008, 12:43 am

yep i do



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22 Aug 2008, 12:51 am

Yes I do. I have lied once because people didnt belive the truth and I wanted them off my back..
I also hate it when people ask me questions that basiaclly mean, I heard what you said but I want you to say it again. Really? Is that so? Are you sure? Listen, I dont like dealing with you so Ill tell you straight the first time, alse youll come back again, Also Its insulting that you think my answaers are only true if repeated as if they are worth half the answaers of others. I think the one time I got most upset was when it happened in a chat room, and I told hi to look up, my answaer is there but he kept incesting a reapet it so I logged out



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22 Aug 2008, 12:52 am

I too hate it when people think I'm lying to them, especially when I'm lying to them.



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22 Aug 2008, 12:55 am

Yes!! !



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22 Aug 2008, 12:59 am

I don't believe any of you!












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22 Aug 2008, 2:22 am

When NTs talk they use irony so when we speak straight they get confused.



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22 Aug 2008, 2:41 am

I don't care whether people believe me or not. It's entirely irrelevant to me. I might care if I was lying but otherwise why should I? If I know I am telling the truth, they should believe me or they are insane (irrational) for want of a better word.

If I tell someone that the earth is 4.54 billion years old and they don't believe me. I will show them the proof (science), if they still don't believe this, then I would conclude that they are insane (irrational).



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22 Aug 2008, 6:54 am

If you are believable like Temple Grandin, Alex Plank, Sue Rubin and Droopy then sure.
If you are a hoax then no it's not okay. In reference to the other thread
that you mentioned, Amanda Baggs was actually singing but showed herself on video
not singing. If you had followed the link, you would have read that from her own writing.

She passes herself off as LFA but then will defend herself by saying she never claimed to be
but yet it's so apparent she is trying to be.

Look at her you tube account. Her name is silentmiaow. Look at the boiling water video.

It takes her five hours to boil water? She needs to go back to psychology 101. She took
that course at Simon Rock college.

People on here will say that Autism Speaks doesn't speak for them and that
Autism Speaks has no autistics yet will defend Amanda Baggs speaking for them?
Wake up and smell the roses.

Her lawyer Anne B isn't here to defend her client yet because she has plenty of blind
people refusing to face the truth. Other places Anne B has reared her head.

If people here started to doubt Amanda then Anne B would show up.

Do a search for this in google emerging from autistic coma



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22 Aug 2008, 8:37 am

I'm so sick & tired of the NT dating site I'm on. Everybody lies. It appears to be normal. I'm not bothered by that. After all, I think if you want acceptance from others you have to be accepting of others. What bugs the hell out of me is that people seem to be incapable of believing that there are some honest people in the world, people who won't sacrifice their integrity just to get laid. It seems that being honest is just too "weird." :roll:


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22 Aug 2008, 8:45 am

MrMark wrote:
I'm so sick & tired of the NT dating site I'm on. Everybody lies. It appears to be normal. I'm not bothered by that. After all, I think if you want acceptance from others you have to be accepting of others. What bugs the hell out of me is that people seem to be incapable of believing that there are some honest people in the world, people who won't sacrifice their integrity just to get laid. It seems that being honest is just too "weird." :roll:


Honesty is often considered "rude" by NTs. Fat people don't like to be called fat. Stupid people don't like to be called stupid and so on. So maybe they are not lying, maybe they are deluded?



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22 Aug 2008, 9:01 am

corroonb wrote:
MrMark wrote:
I'm so sick & tired of the NT dating site I'm on. Everybody lies. It appears to be normal. I'm not bothered by that. After all, I think if you want acceptance from others you have to be accepting of others. What bugs the hell out of me is that people seem to be incapable of believing that there are some honest people in the world, people who won't sacrifice their integrity just to get laid. It seems that being honest is just too "weird." :roll:


Honesty is often considered "rude" by NTs. Fat people don't like to be called fat. Stupid people don't like to be called stupid and so on. So maybe they are not lying, maybe they are deluded?

That's beside the point. It bothers me that people find me so hard to believe, that they can't believe that there are honest people in the world. I can be tactful. I don't call the fat girls fat and I don't mention autism in my profile.


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22 Aug 2008, 9:05 am

Sorry. I meant to suggest that maybe because they are lying, they make the assumption that everyone else is too.



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22 Aug 2008, 9:07 am

corroonb wrote:
Sorry. I meant to suggest that maybe because they are lying, they make the assumption that everyone else is too.

Yes, I think that's it exactly.


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22 Aug 2008, 9:11 am

MrMark wrote:
corroonb wrote:
Sorry. I meant to suggest that maybe because they are lying, they make the assumption that everyone else is too.

Yes, I think that's it exactly.


In a system where lies are the norm, lies become truth and truth becomes lies. A reversal of normal values it seems. People are generally more paranoid online when they should probably be less.