Worst people to have a crush on you?

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It's interesting. I'm attracted to Masculine Women (In Gender Binary terms: Women who dress, talk, look and behave like Men). But NONE of those types ever had a crush on me. I've had someone who is feminine from my college who has a secret crush on me, but I was never interested. That's rare. It's probably because I have to dress in Masculine clothes for my parents, keep my hair short and look Masculine and since I have an Androgynous face, that might get the attraction to some Feminine Women. But anyways, not my type.

But most people who have crushes on me are

Homosexual men and People who are mentally ret*d.
I get these a lot. No offense to anyone who is, it's just that I HATE it when I attract people who aren't my type and they aren't even close to my type.

Currently I got this homosexual male who is in my class now who always wants me to be his video project parner so we are currently. He always has a dreamly look in his eyes and he giggles at random times when he looks at me when I'm not looking at him. He puts his arms underneith his legs and starts rocking in his chair with a high pitched giggle.


Then I got my transportation program. It's a program called "Buckingham" and they help me with transportation, job searching and stuff like that. There are rarely high functioning people like me there. But there's like 2 or 3 or even 5 Women who are between the ages of 25 -50 would come literially waddling closer and closer and closer to me until I my back ends up next to the wall. "Hi Eric, are you coming to my Aunt Sally's Birthday party with me?" or "Do you love me Eric? Do you want to have my Babies!"


GOD! What a Nightmare!

At least people like you and have crushes on you. I'm either friend material or too weird to crush on material. Maybe I'm just bitter today though.

Seconded. Woe be the day that you get spoiled enough that you resent having to put up with people actually having an interest in you. I can understand if they are making advances *that* blatant and forthwith such as asking to have your babies; I'd probably be annoyed myself even if it was by somebody I was interested in as well.

Granted, I have no experience with this, but I would imagine I'd probably feel somewhat flattered. Do they keep doing this stuff even after you politely but firmly reject them? If so, then yeah it's cause to be annoyed. If you're leading them on though or dodging the issue, then I don't see how you can really blame them for their persistence.

Ericc --

I'm unclear from your profile pic and self descriptions -- are you a guy or a masculine girl?

I myself used to (when I was young and skinny) have the problem of attracting fat or homely girls. That problem seems to be gone now.

The three or four gay guys I've known well enough to talk about sexual interests told me in no uncertain terms that I physically wasn't their type. In fact I was surprised at how blunt they were about it - I mean gee, thanks! That said, I've read many stories of straight men getting hit on in gay bars and being astonished that anyone would make a move on them, and I imagine I could fit this category. I don't know what it feels like to get perved on and don't particularly want to find out.

I couldn't even quote the rest. That's disgusting. Do they do it in the presence of each other? It's hard to tell from a posted description, but I'm wondering about harassment. If they're just playing a game with you, I'd report them. And make it at least as embarrassing for them as they have made it for you.

The only people who seem to develop crushes on me are women older or younger than me by at least a full generation.

Either I'm young enough to be her son, or old enough to be her dad.

My wife just laughs about it.

As a woman, I can tell you how it is to have to constantly deal with unwelcome advances. I don't know if you're a woman or a man either, but it isn't always flattering to deal with a lot of unwanted flirtation.

... yet you state your age as 40. Unless it's only 60-year old (or older) creeps hitting on you, I'd say you must have a lot going for you.

Congratulations!

Prepubescents.

Gamers always get crushes on me. Idk why, I mean I like video games but I'm nawt all into them as much as they are. Every guy I've dated likes anime but thats because I'm obessted wif it. Also, REALLY tall or at least 6 feet like me too.

Ericc, while i have to agree that unwanted advances WOULD be annoying, your problem is still uttery alien to me.

To quote a comic i read called questionable content, it's like a bear telling a shark that it's knees hurt.

My profile picture of Tank and Haruko? And Self Descriptions?


Well you see, I'm biomale (Biologicly Male) but I'm Not Masculine. I'm Androgyne (Inbetween Masculine and Feminine) and Bigender (Switch to either Masculine or Feminine Behavors in spiciffic reations). And I'm attracted to Women who are Masculine (Binary terms: Women who look, talk, behave like tyical males). ENTP is a personality type which is used in the Myers Briggs Personality Psychology.

If you have any questions regarding this, feel free to email me at ericcrooks@sbcglobal.net

Which to you mean?

That people that are REALLY REALLY REALLY Mentally Disabled that are in their 40s have a crush on me and tell me that they love me? I'm 21 and I'm not attracted to them! I don't want to sound discriminating towards people who are in the DMR!

While I don't currently have your same "problem", I got a lot of that back when I lived in Wyoming. Women that I'd find both disgusting and that were well out of my age range would get way too close to me to either start touching me or whisper sweet nothings in my ear. And by sweet nothings I mean crude sexual acts that would literally make me retch. One even got so bad that I had to threaten reporting her for sexual harassment (she was older than my mom and had a glorious mullet).

Women with manly bodies. There's this girl that has a very deep voice that I think likes me and I'm absolutely repulsed by her.