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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Re joined dating websites |
| Sangsang |
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Posted: 18 Jun 2016, 10:33 am
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Replies: 75
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| Judgmental on adult women who aren't virgins much? If you only want to date virgins, that's your prerogative... and likely translates into you (1) auto-rejecting the vast majority of your female peers and (2) are effectively limiting your dates to the uber-religious, no-sex-before-marriage girls. Y... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Can I appeal to anti-discrimination laws as a non citizen? |
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Posted: 18 Jun 2016, 10:19 am
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Replies: 53
Views: 2,523
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| To them you need the whole package, you need the technical skills as well as the "soft" skills...they want someone that can work well with other members of the team, people with good communication skills, good people skills, people who are personable and likeable. Effectively, people who ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Re joined dating websites |
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Posted: 17 Jun 2016, 11:39 pm
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Replies: 75
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| So it been over a week since I joined Okcupid and PoF. Still not being paid attention enough. Lack of messages, including the religious ones. You aren't being paid enough attention by the women of OKC and POF?! You aren't entitled to attention from anyone. Also, why on earth would you think a girl'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Re joined dating websites |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2016, 4:54 pm
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Replies: 75
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I think it depends on who you're messaging - if OP elects to contact only the hottest girl, who get a million messages, the response rate will be very low.
In my experience, I responded to maybe 10% of the online messages I received. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Re joined dating websites |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2016, 11:05 am
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Internet dating is up some people's alleys but not others. Let a thousand flowers bloom.
OP is clearly keen on Internet dating, so his options are (1) keep at it, knowing that he'll probably not hear back from 90%+ of the girls he messages or (2) stop and meet girls some other way. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Girlfriend barred from entering US :( |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2016, 11:01 am
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Replies: 112
Views: 4,337
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| A sponsor has to show the means to support a new immigrant in order to be a sponsor. It's like this all over the world, really. Most countries don't want people to immigrate, then to go on their welfare rolls. If you're an economic migrant, yes. If you're a refugee, not necessarily -- in the US the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Re joined dating websites |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2016, 9:09 pm
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Replies: 75
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| of desperation? You message 26 girls you like, and then one of them answers you back, so you chose her because she is the only one that appears to have any interest. That does sound like unhealthy desperation to me. Yep, that's internet dating. It's not desperation, it's how intenet dating works (a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Messages women get in dating sites |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2016, 8:59 pm
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Replies: 158
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| A guy can work on himself all he wants but he can't ever count on anybody ever initiating a relationship with them, that's just not how most human relationships work. Maybe not 100% of the time but is 70+% a stretch? Disability adds this other layer, most women I think would reject you without a mo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Messages women get in dating sites |
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Posted: 14 Jun 2016, 7:12 pm
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Replies: 158
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| On the note that where you send very kind and generous message by introducing yourself just briefly like a welcoming or greeting message and talk about her profile things like asking common interest questions that stands out to me. I don't message to every girl I see listed but I only message to th... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Can I appeal to anti-discrimination laws as a non citizen? |
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Posted: 14 Jun 2016, 7:07 pm
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Replies: 53
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| It's also possible to be 100% qualified for a job and not get it. Maybe lots of equally qualified people applied. Maybe better qualified people applied. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Re joined dating websites |
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Posted: 14 Jun 2016, 7:01 pm
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Replies: 75
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| Oh by the way, I don't message to every girl on PoF but I have messaged a few that I am interested about their interests and stuff from their profiles. Then they let me know they viewed my profile and not even bothering replying to me. I only have one so far. The common interests doesn't seem an at... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Wishing I was younger. |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2016, 5:56 pm
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Replies: 1
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| Therapy? Meds? Combination thereof? Lots of people were abused and bullied and there are all sorts of treatments available. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Physical Attractiveness - Nature vs Nurture |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2016, 1:02 pm
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Replies: 40
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| I would say 50% nurture and 50% nature. Obviously, you can't change bone structure, it's what you are born with. Disregarding plastic surgery. Bone structure is a very big factor in physical attractiveness, and certainly facially. But all the rest, weight, skin, hair, clothing, scent -can easily be... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Girlfriend barred from entering US :( |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2016, 12:53 pm
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Replies: 112
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| Yup, it is expensive and time-consuming to bring a spouse to America. Any interest in moving to Turkey? lol When we were doing my husband's paperwork, he required a sponsor - someone who was willing (and had the means) to repay the government if he applied for welfare during his first five years in... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Messages women get in dating sites |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2016, 12:52 pm
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Replies: 158
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| All the women who have used dating states that have commented don't seem to have any issues, but all the guys who have commented have...I'm sensing a pattern here. Simply put, just like in real life dating men are at a disadvantage; it's just made worse online. Women hold all the cards in a relatio... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Do Aspies have greater income inequality than nuerotypicals? |
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Posted: 12 Jun 2016, 6:46 pm
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Replies: 9
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| I'm on the milder end of the spectrum, have a graduate degree and an in-demand niche set, so have never had trouble finding work. A not insignificant number of my colleagues are also on the spectrum - as I work in a field where all eggs in the brains basket and none left for social skills is more or... |
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