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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I want to give up on love but can't |
| arthur_arcturus |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2016, 3:44 pm
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Replies: 50
Views: 2,430
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| Women can tell when you need one too badly and will reject you on that basis due to demonstrated lack of preselection. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Why are Chinese people so much friendlier than Japanese? |
| arthur_arcturus |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2016, 7:08 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 22,157
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| Japanese people go through hell as children. Parents normally don't hug them. They are regimented through shame (that's what their society is based on). There is massive gossip and group exclusion for people who stick out or behave in an overly expressive way. It's a very merciless system going on b... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: Any way to get notified when a message is 'quoted' |
| arthur_arcturus |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2016, 6:14 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 282
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| The correct answer was that I had to check "notify me when a reply is posted" below the box I am using right now. (If it works) |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What exactly is flirting? |
| arthur_arcturus |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2016, 9:35 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,176
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| I am confused about this as well. How do you tell between someone just being friendly and doing normal chatting and someone doing it just because they like you? If someone is the opposite gender, do we automatically assume they're flirting? How do you tell between friendship and someone liking you ... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: Any way to get notified when a message is 'quoted' |
| arthur_arcturus |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2016, 9:27 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 282
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| Any way to get notified by email when a message is 'quoted' i.e. replied to? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To be chased is by far more powerful. |
| arthur_arcturus |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2016, 9:25 am
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Replies: 133
Views: 6,047
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| I refuse to partake in chasing dynamics, because they are adversarial. People who see relationships as a sort of hunting sport are obnoxious, wasters of time and will eventually regret to have served so willingly as nature's precious little pawns. Which dynamics do you mean? Are you talking about t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To be chased is by far more powerful. |
| arthur_arcturus |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2016, 9:16 am
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Replies: 133
Views: 6,047
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| I refuse to partake in chasing dynamics, because they are adversarial. People who see relationships as a sort of hunting sport are obnoxious, wasters of time and will eventually regret to have served so willingly as nature's precious little pawns. Which dynamics do you mean? Are you talking about t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I want to give up on love but can't |
| arthur_arcturus |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2016, 6:03 pm
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Replies: 50
Views: 2,430
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| Welcome to human life. Now if you can avoid burdening a new soul with the same predicament, you'll be on my good book. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can you be Aspie and affectionate? |
| arthur_arcturus |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2016, 6:01 pm
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Replies: 84
Views: 17,773
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| I vote yes on that. Generally both people with AS and highly gifted people have either a strong preference or a strong aversion to certain things. I also experienced very little physical contact as a child, and like physical affection very much. However, the reverse: I am extremely sensitive to move... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Question about the 'friendzone' |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2016, 5:58 pm
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Replies: 77
Views: 4,122
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| Overwhelmingly whether a woman has a boyfriend or hasn't a boyfriend carries no weight. The only things that weigh are her emotional states and his ability to create those in her. If he's got enough game she will later rationalize it in all sorts of ways. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating couches & pickup artists helpfull or not? |
| arthur_arcturus |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2016, 5:55 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 905
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| I was in the seduction community heavily for 2-3 years. Never paid for bootcamps, just studied online and found a wingman to practice. The techniques work. Anyone who says they don't hasn't put in the time. Even simple stuff like the 3 second rule, or the angle from which you approach matter tremend... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do girls date dumb jocks? |
| arthur_arcturus |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2016, 5:48 pm
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Replies: 65
Views: 3,990
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| You need to do some reading on sexual mating strategies and evo psych. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To be chased is by far more powerful. |
| arthur_arcturus |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2016, 5:45 pm
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Replies: 133
Views: 6,047
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| I refuse to partake in chasing dynamics, because they are adversarial. People who see relationships as a sort of hunting sport are obnoxious, wasters of time and will eventually regret to have served so willingly as nature's precious little pawns. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is this good advice from my mom? |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2016, 5:41 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 902
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| "Good advice" and "mom" normally do not go together in the same book let alone in the same sentence, but, largely this is true. If someone is not into you, you can't make them like you. Actually you sort of can, but it's not stable, you won't be able to keep it up, and it will ca... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Am I better of being single? |
| arthur_arcturus |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2016, 5:40 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 2,668
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You are definitely better off without! So if you meet a good one send her to me  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Creative Date Ideas |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2016, 5:39 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 801
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| What most guys do not realize is that if a girl is into you she will not care where you take her. Women generally like to see that you put some thought into planning the activity (not sure if aspies feel the same way). But men normally completely overestimate the importance of the location, and end ... |
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