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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am sick of older women being interested in me |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2023, 10:51 am
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Replies: 101
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of course 20yo girls don't look at you. you're 33.
as i said. there's a HUGE difference in 20-33 vs 33-46 or even 56.
at 33 you hopefully are grown, mature. have a job and are at least intellectually independent. anyone under 25 is NOT on the same level as you |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am sick of older women being interested in me |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2023, 8:00 am
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Replies: 101
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| Yes you just want significantly younger women ONLY. Women who are more easily led and still want to impress men. :roll: Maybe you should work more on making yourself more appealing to women your own age. Women in their late-20s and early-30s are most often lookinfg for something stable, if not a lon... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am sick of older women being interested in me |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2023, 6:15 am
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Replies: 101
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| why does a 33 year old want to date 20 year old women? :? There's a significant maturity gap between a 20yo and a 33yo that is simply NOT present between a 33yo and 46yo. People's brains aren't even fully developed til they're 25. As a woman the same age as you, I can't even go lower than 27 because... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: dating a demisexual |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 18 Jun 2023, 6:13 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 2,477
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| I'm not fully ready to get in the sack with him yet. as we've just met. but i definitely like him and know its going to get there eventually for me. what i don't want to do is pressure him and make him FEEL like he has to. i know there's usually a lot of prejudice that guys MUST be sexual performers... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: dating a demisexual |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 17 Jun 2023, 3:35 pm
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Replies: 25
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| I've recently started dating a really nice guy. We've been getting along really well and he explained that he's demisexual. I know thats similar to ace but more emotion-based attraction, but as someone who's more active I'm not sure what that means for us. I don't want to pressure or push him into a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How long do you wait before asking for a second date? |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 15 May 2023, 3:41 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 2,121
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| Yes I'm planning on asking him, but I don't know if I should give it some time first |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How long do you wait before asking for a second date? |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 15 May 2023, 3:30 pm
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Replies: 24
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| I had a really nice date with a guy on Saturday. One of those dates that stretches out til 1am because you don't want to go home. He texted yesterday morning to say he had a great time, too. He's kinda awkward (probably also on the spectrum tbh), so I'm not sure how long it's going to take him to as... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Replacing seafood |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2023, 4:25 am
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Replies: 2
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| I dislike seafood. I hate the texture and the smell. Some of it tastes fine but I find it very hard to get past my sensory issues. I used to try and have at least some salmon or tuna once a week but recently even that's making me gag. So I've decided I want to cut it out at least for now. What's the... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: When is an apology selfish? |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 25 Feb 2023, 8:58 am
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Replies: 10
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| i mentioned this to a friend and she made a good point. in the initial thread, by apologizing so many times the OP was demanding forgiveness, or at least not giving up until they got it. i definitely agree that people have no obligation to accept apologies. still can't really understand why the firs... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: When is an apology selfish? |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2023, 4:49 pm
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Replies: 10
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| I came across a thread on Reddit earlier that prompted this. It was from a former bully who kept trying to apologize to one of their victims, and didn't seem to accept that they wanted nothing to do with him. He was told by pretty much everyone that he shouldn't have even apologized in the first pla... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: becoming friends... finally |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2023, 4:27 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,385
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| best way i can describe it is an "existential crisis". nice to say he's at least being consistenly inconsistent with everyone now. he'll go from talking about starting a family one day and how much time he's wasted in life, to the next day telling us he's gonna find a shack in the countrys... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: becoming friends... finally |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2023, 7:04 pm
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Replies: 11
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| UPDATE on the update: So. Turns out he's really sick. Like REALLY really. Dont want to go too much into his stuff but - We were all in a call earlier and he explained that over the past few months he's been getting tests, etc. and they finally found something. They're talking treatment now so it's n... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Interview the person below you |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2023, 1:42 pm
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Replies: 67,950
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i believe it was sabriel by garth nix.
what's something you did recently that you're proud of? |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: becoming friends... finally |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2023, 12:47 pm
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Replies: 11
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| i actually went back through some chats and think I get the mother comparisons, haha. example 1: i said "i live to scar kids" example 2: i tricked him into doing something that got him killed in a game that's actually funny. :lol: so it's situations where I'm deliberately doing/saying some... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: becoming friends... finally |
| RacoKula |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2023, 11:44 am
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Replies: 11
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| That's OK klana I understand. You had good intentions. And like I said, I'm staying mindful. He DOES talk directly to me, if it's just us he has no problem. With him comparing me to his mom, I don't get the impression it's a "calling out" way. More of a "haha, that's something my mom ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: becoming friends... finally |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2023, 3:19 am
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Replies: 11
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| Maybe he has a crush on you but is resisting it, out of fear of rejection (or possibly other reasons)? possibly. I'm terrible at these things so dont know how to tell Does he do the same with other people, or just with you? i feel like its more with me than others, but then could be personal bias H... |
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