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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice!? |
| Granite |
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Posted: 13 Sep 2009, 7:08 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,947
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Your girlfriend has asked for help.
I'm more than a little concerned that you are monitoring her computer activities.
Please get some help. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice!? |
| Granite |
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Posted: 13 Sep 2009, 6:10 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,947
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| I hate the feeling of "is the next thing out of my mouth going to cause a fight." You are walking on eggshells around this man. Is this how you want to spend the rest of your life? He's controlling you through his anger, whether he is doing this consciously or not. Since none of us know you or him,... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tradeoffs and Dealbreakers? |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2009, 3:45 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 3,364
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| My nonboyfriend is starting to get on my nerves over one thing and it IS a dealbreaker. He flips out if I do anything that in his mind is dangerous. Here is the challenge: He's a low functioning aspie. His social skills aren't the best. I can see that he has lots of fears and he hates to leave the n... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Human Touch |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2009, 3:35 pm
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Replies: 44
Views: 7,548
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| I occasionally hang out , so most of the human contact I get is at my workplace, I get human touch by accident or by shaking hands or by the three_kisses_salutation which I hate (you should kiss three times in total on both cheek when you meet some friend/accquantiance that you didn't see for a whi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone else get sick of being told to "be yourself" |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2009, 11:11 am
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Replies: 51
Views: 7,304
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If you don't like being yourself then don't be. Try out a new personality, or model one after someone else.
You don't have to be yourself all the time. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone else get sick of being told to "be yourself" |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2009, 10:07 am
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Replies: 51
Views: 7,304
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| I thought the lid was for to sit on and to keep stuff from falling in there. But wont the smells waft out of the lid through the cracks between the seat and the lid? My family had never kept the lids down, only the toilet seats. The reason you want to lower the toilet seat is for the flush cycle. W... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Human Touch |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2009, 9:39 am
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Replies: 44
Views: 7,548
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| There's nothing wrong with that though. Why not seek out a mate who meets your sensory and romantic needs? I don't know why Aspies (or anyone else) feels the need to settle. Find someone who meets your sensory/romantic needs. They're out there. In an ideal world that would be what this man can do. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Challenging the idea of conventional relationships |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2009, 7:54 am
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Replies: 50
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| What is a conventional relationship? I love watching TV. Both the TV shows and the commercials show a dad, mom and a couple of kids. They live in a 3 bedroom house. They are happy and fulfilled, everyone knows exactly what role they play. The mom has a job, raises the kids, keeps the house clean, do... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Asian Trophy Wives |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2009, 6:21 pm
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Replies: 88
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| When I look for a mate I look at his genetics. I'm looking for a man with a large penis for procreation, a large head for intelligence so that he can earn a high salary. I'm looking at a muscular body so he can protect me and my offspring. I'm glad I have large breasts so I can feed my young and wid... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Human Touch |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2009, 12:36 pm
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Replies: 44
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| a human need? I doubt that. If that were the case I would have died a decade or so ago. With 1262 posts, I say you are getting plenty of human contact, even if it is Internet based. Internet contact is like eating tofu when you are craving steak. Yes, but both steak and tofu will keep you alive. Ea... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Human Touch |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2009, 10:12 am
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Replies: 44
Views: 7,548
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Izaak wrote: a human need?
I doubt that. If that were the case I would have died a decade or so ago.
With 1262 posts, I say you are getting plenty of human contact, even if it is Internet based. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Human Touch |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2009, 6:43 am
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Replies: 44
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| You have 2 choices. 1) If human touch is all that you crave, I'd suggest getting a massage. 2) Your job will ultimately kill you. Think about what you are doing and why. 7 days a week where you are the boss and the job is filled with stress. The only way I've found to cope is to treat Human Contact ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is this inappropriate |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2009, 5:46 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 3,497
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I'm glad things worked out for you.
In this world there will always be pushy inappropriate people. They are a pain to deal with but sometimes it can be nice to have them around so that we can use the gonads that God gave us.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: i have a dilemma. thoughts? advice? hear me out? |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2009, 7:11 pm
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Replies: 101
Views: 8,940
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| Sorry if I'm beating a dead horse but something just occured to me - along with BobTheMartian's statement that "14=immature" is a strictly North-American phenomenon: Perhaps the reason 14 year olds ARE immature here is because society treats them like children and doesn't allow them any responsibil... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: i have a dilemma. thoughts? advice? hear me out? |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2009, 1:58 pm
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Replies: 101
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| wow, i finally created a thread that's generated at least 5 pages. i'm oddly proud in a way. i guess controversial stuff did the trick. It helps to come back every once in a while and respond to the posters. Thanking people and providing comments are also good for long thread lengths. Your topic ma... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feel Trapped Suicide Again. |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2009, 11:00 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 3,114
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SINsister wrote: Explain, please. I have a (thus far, only unofficially diagnosed) NVLD, and I can't do math. 
Are you serious? Could you please explain this NVLD?
My aspie nonboyfriend can't do math either, like he can't even add 2 and 2. I find this interesting. |
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