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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: The Autistic Genocide Clock. This is sickening people. |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 6:59 pm
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| This is totally disgusting that this is happening, but hardly new news. All we can do is bombard the email addresses of the Autism Speaks people, the Judge Rotenberg Center people, the CAN people, the FEAT people, and all the rest of them with positive emails about autistics, and if you don't have i... |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: The Autistic Genocide Clock. This is sickening people. |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 6:48 pm
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| This is totally disgusting that this is happening, but hardly new news. All we can do is bombard the email addresses of the Autism Speaks people, the Judge Rotenberg Center people, the CAN people, the FEAT people, and all the rest of them with positive emails about autistics, and if you don't have i... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: The way to teach children how to be nice: be nice to them. |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 6:23 pm
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| The way to teach children charity, or empathy, or forgiveness, or love, or respect, or manners, or tact, is not to try to force the child to have any of that for other people (which is impossible anyway, and bad for the child) but to do the opposite: be charitable towards them, empathize with them, ... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Motivational defecit |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 6:18 pm
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Replies: 6 Views: 1,232
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| That's what I say I'll do. A tiny, TINY bit at a time. But people say I'd be going too slow that way. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Ostracising fellow AS-ish person |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 6:13 pm
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| Oh, dear. I think he must be in some pain if even his own people are ignoring him. I can probably feel his pain, because I've been ostracised by Aspies too (like at another Aspie site). And my Aspie boyfriend has told me how inappropriate I am and I sometimes feel that he wants to show off how much ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Did you ever... |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 6:08 pm
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| I don't think I thought about that, Aoi. I now have a theory. I think that perhaps those people think they're right because they're the majority and they remember the same thing with their bad memories, even though we're actually right even though we're the minority, because our memories are better ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Seeing all sides |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 6:05 pm
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| What kills me is that often they accuse ME of being the one that refuses to realize that we're both right and is in it just for the snarls and coos. I always wonder if they really think that or if they're just saying that to make me upset and then I think, if it's the latter, is it to make other peo... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: ''Wow; I was a real social dunce back then.'' |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 5:59 pm
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raisedbyignorance wrote: This is where a good bunch of my severe depression stems from. Elaborate! I know that that's where a lot of my social anxiety (and depression) stemmed from. I think I may be like you. |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Forcing opinions on children |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 5:21 pm
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| I hate it when parents and teachers tell a child that he will continue to be punished unless he says ''I'm sorry'' for something he isn't sorry for. It's like they think he's a monster because he doesn't see things the same way they do or have the same opinions or values. He will end up hiding his f... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: We keep eating her babies |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 5:13 pm
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Replies: 14 Views: 2,400
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| I had objects that I had that were my babies, my friends, whatever. My beloved pen, my dear sweet peach-flavored-spring-water bottle, whatever I found so cute and sweet and darling at the time. |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: The law should get its priorities straight. |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 5:08 pm
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| Instead of worrying about infringing on the rights of the people who own, run and support places like the Judge Rotenberg Center, they should storm that place and do whatever it takes to get those students (prisoners) out. They should put the prisoners first. And if the law fails to do it, we should... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do you ever convince yourself that something unpleasant is |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 4:58 pm
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| true? You're dreading it so much and you believe so intensely and honestly that beyond a shadow of a doubt it's going to happen, and then you think that if you know it's going to happen, it might as well have already happened. I believed that about my boyfriend being smarter, saner, more practical a... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Did you ever... |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 4:52 pm
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| Do you ever say someone did or said something that they really did or said, but they get mad at you for saying it/ call you a liar/ say they didn't do or say that thing you said they did or said? Maybe because they actually forget they did or said it, maybe because they're just lying to cover their ... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: ''This site is for people with ASDs and their parents.'' |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 4:48 pm
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| This phrase bothers me, because it makes it sound like nobody cares about us but our parents, that our parents are all we have because we're too socially inept to make friends or get a boyfriend or girlfriend, let alone get married, and that we definitely don't have children, and that even our sibli... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Seeing all sides |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 4:43 pm
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| I got so frustrated whenever two people or groups would argue and insult each other and put each other down, get angry at each other and call each other stupid and deluded, thinking they disagreed, when actually the two parties agreed and just had different ways of saying the same thing, but each on... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Motivational defecit |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2009, 4:37 pm
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Replies: 6 Views: 1,232
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| If I could only be motivated enough to exercise, and think of better meals to eat, it would really benefit me. But while I have this motivational defecit, trying to force myself (or having someone else try to force, threaten or guilt me) while I still have the motivational defecit will only make me ... |
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