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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Disclosure on Dating Sites |
| gordonsill7 |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2013, 5:30 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,124
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| If I set up an OKC profile, and/or a POF account, would you advise we disclose the Asperger's if it's mild on the profile 'about me'? Or would you wait until you get a response, and mention it via private message? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: An Experiment in College |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2013, 4:34 pm
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Replies: 40
Views: 3,149
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| I've struggled with this for years... in high school, I didn't tell some 'friends' and they ended up laughing and making me the joke when I wasn't around, because I'd do funny things on purpose, to make them laugh, and they were laughing... it worked... but it wasn't the "we love you, and you're fun... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Age...guys-younger or older women? NT or not? Same for wome |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2013, 3:57 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,343
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| See, I can see that but I also wonder if older women, would be more understanding. I am a kind person with nothing but love to give her, and will please her beyond her imagination, and some younger girls, look for the dudes that are having the job, etc. which I am currently looking for- just getting... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Age...guys-younger or older women? NT or not? Same for wome |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2013, 3:48 pm
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Replies: 16
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| Hypothetically speaking, as a 23 year old, aspie male, do you see more of us being with NT older (young women), or younger? If so, how much older/younger? 18 being youngest obviously. What about aspie couples? I don't care about age. It's a number, the heart is def. more important, I am just curious... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2013, 8:01 pm
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Replies: 3,833
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| Age: 23 Brown hair, hazel eyes, and average build... very empathetic, kind, loving, and am interested in writing music, piano, and photography. I live in northern Indiana. I am very affectionate, and believe in God, graduated college with a degree in Communication Studies and minored in youth minist... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: How did you find work? |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2013, 4:11 pm
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Replies: 21
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| I shelved books in high school at a local library, and loved it. It was quiet... tons of books and music, and it was a great environment. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: How did you find work? |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2013, 7:30 pm
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Replies: 21
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| See, I have tried to go into places to apply, and they just shoo me away, or give me the response on finding the career section on our website, blah blah. So I waste gas, just to be turned away, no interest in talking, just do it online. I discovered Vocational Rehabilitation, every state has them i... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Independence/Job |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2013, 7:17 pm
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Replies: 4
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| Yeah, and that's really old to me. I'm thinking more like 25 or 26, kids, not until later on. I majored in Communication Studies. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Independence/Job |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2013, 7:01 pm
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Replies: 4
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| I graduated college, and got a part time job bagging groceries. I was basically let go, for not doing that well enough the last 2 months. I am living at home now, at age 23, and my dad will comment to me about "you can't even hold a job, at this rate you won't get down to Florida where you want" And... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does Aspergers and romance neediness go hand in hand? |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2013, 6:52 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 13,515
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| We all have 'needs', and 'desires' For some, it is money, for some it is spiritual, for some it is their hobbies, sports, whatever it is, we all- aspie or nt, we have desires. In my situation: I come across as needy, I am told this by my parents sometimes. Why do I want a young woman in my life? NOT... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: does anyone here try to do "small-talk" |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2013, 7:35 pm
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Replies: 38
Views: 9,627
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| Wow, this is something, many times I go somewhere, and as they say "Hi can I help you?" I say "Hey, how are you doing today?" And they just stare at me... seconds tick by, and I'm like, should I repeat myself? Or ask again? Or just tell her to help me, with what I came for? Jeez, just trying to be f... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating sites |
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Posted: 03 Feb 2013, 1:14 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,288
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| Okcupid is free, and have spoken to a few ladies on there. Though many don't respond. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Topic of interest:love |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2013, 7:44 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,335
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Topic of interest:love |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2013, 9:39 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,335
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Topic of interest:love |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2013, 7:02 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,335
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| Its a Long road road my friend, and I can't say that I have everything figured out, because I don't. I actually find myself in that position that your are in; it really is a constant battle that can be all consuming at times. What I can say though is to try and figure yourself out first, before rus... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: South Bend area groups? |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2013, 6:51 pm
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Replies: 0
Views: 650
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| Any groups around the South Bend, Indiana area? |
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