azurecrayon wrote:
thanks cosmicruss, that was a great video to watch.
i found it a bit odd that the 8 yr old brother was asking questions about autism, as if he didnt really know what it was. makes me wonder if the diagnosis is new or they just havent discussed his brothers dx with him.
how you refer to your parents is often cultural, so it may just be the norm for people in that area to call parents mummy and daddy, regardless of age. it can even be custom just within the family. my SO and his siblings call their mother mom, but refer to her as mommy when they talk about her, and they are all between 39 and 50 yo.
we went to pick up our oldest last night from where he was participating in a youth theatre production. he will be 15 in two months. he was waiting outside with half a dozen other teenagers, and when he saw us, he waved and yelled loudly, "Hi mommy, hi daddy!" thats typical for him, he will hug me and tell me he loves me in the hallway of his school surrounded by other kids. hes never complained about getting any flack for it. i think part of it is the typical autistic lack of caring for social convention and opinions of others. we also still have 5 and 7 yos in the house who call us mommy and daddy, so im sure part is just that thats how we are addressed by everyone else.
I live fairly near the family in the programme and a child above about 8 would refer to their parents as Mum and Dad or Ma and Da, otherwise they'd get picked on. I can see my daughter calling me Mummy when she's a teenager, although most of her peers (5 and 6 yr olds) are already ditching 'Mummy' and 'Daddy'.