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MundaneAlien
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30 May 2017, 12:46 pm

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Double_bind

Does anyone have any ideas about dealing with this?

I can see many examples of how double binds are dealt to people and it leads to 'decision cripple'.

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09 Jun 2017, 10:08 pm

Dealing with it is probably situation-dependent, but if you mean dealing with a person who often communicates this way, I'd try to avoid that person or perhaps discuss the issue if the behavior seems genuinely unconscious.

Developing the skill to recognize a double bind when you are in one is also probably helpful.



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09 Jun 2017, 10:43 pm

MundaneAlien wrote:
Does anyone have any ideas about dealing with this?


Don't fully trust anyone. Don't listen to what people say, watch what they do.