STILL dealing with my brother's resistance to me getting...

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Mikurotoro92
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09 May 2025, 12:18 pm

married next year!! !

It's REALLY starting to piss me the f**k off and Josh needs a therapist in order to see the truth about his problematic behavior and all of the emotional abuse he has done to me!



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09 May 2025, 2:00 pm

Can you invite your brother to join this forum so we can see his point of view directly?

Maybe he may have a valid reason for being anxious about your marraige.



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11 May 2025, 12:13 am

It's quite possible he has a very good reason to be anxious but no body should be expected to never get married in order to be their siblings emotional support for the rest of their lives. Boundaries need to be set & he may need to get some kind of outside help like a therapist or a social worker.


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23 May 2025, 1:15 am

nick007 wrote:
It's quite possible he has a very good reason to be anxious but no body should be expected to never get married in order to be their siblings emotional support for the rest of their lives. Boundaries need to be set & he may need to get some kind of outside help like a therapist or a social worker.


Yep when that time comes I MUST make a choice!! !