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20 Feb 2014, 6:50 pm

^That comic came from this article by a Taiwan-born Feminist

http://notyourchinagirl.com/post/On_the ... estern_Man

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...The appeal of Asian women for Western men largely lies in the fantasy-indulging experience that engenders a feeling of dominance and masculinity which is lacking, or perhaps even threatened, in their own culture. ....what Sheridan Prasso calls the “Asian Mystique…the fantasy of the exotic, indulging, decadent, sensual Oriental who will indulge you and delight you with the decadence and servility that no women in your own culture could.”...

...a stigma exists toward Asian women who date Western men, which also casts interracial dating in a poor light. They are condemned as being social climbers, materialistic, and superficial. However, that, too, is a stereotype, and some of the reasons Asian women prefer to date Western men extend beyond perceived social status or physical attraction. Sexism has, in fact, been an integral part of Asian society since its origin, and is still prevalent in Asian societies. Asian women may prefer pairing with Western men because they feel like they are treated more as an equal, and enjoy greater independence in a relationship....

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21 Feb 2014, 3:05 pm

By the way, there also seems to be a popular stereotype that nerdy white guys like Asian chicks

http://www.gamespot.com/forums/offtopic ... -26433908/

http://8wayrun.com/threads/is-it-true-n ... icks.2912/

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthrea ... =134353621

http://www.ign.com/boards/threads/fact- ... 196517893/

http://www.clemsontalk.com/vb/showthread.php?t=25936

http://www.stormfront.org/forum/t103710-5/

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21 Feb 2014, 3:53 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:

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I'm only attracted to Asian girls, which sadly there are very few who share common interests such as anime or video games, and whenever I do find an Asian girl who is I scare her away easily because of my tendency to come off as a stalker (even though I have no intentions of stalking anyone).

I'm actually in therapy right now and taking Lexapro because of depression brought on by my obsession with a half-Thai girl who recently got engaged to someone else and is expecting his child. I honestly don't think that I will ever find anyone else who's better for me than her, and OKCupid hasn't helped.

If there are any Asian boyfriend-free girls on here who would like to be my Sweetheart from the ground up, please respond.

Okay, that sounded pretty stupid and desperate, but still....

You can always move to silicon valley! Tons of asian girls here tons of anime conventions sometimes 3 or 4 in one year! Its an aspie otaku paradise! Imagine dating a female Asian whos an aspie an otaku and a cosplayer? Hehe! Like cosplays as Boa Hancock from One Piece?!

No no no no no!

Nico Robin!

Or

Kukakku Shiba!

Not Boa Hancock!

Rukia?

Nah, Ichigo can have her!

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22 Feb 2014, 3:31 pm

I feel uncomfortable when a lot of white people talk to me as an asian girl because I don't want them to only communicate to me because i'm some "fetish" to them.

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24 Feb 2014, 4:34 am

Alyoshka wrote:

I feel uncomfortable when a lot of white people talk to me as an asian girl because I don't want them to only communicate to me because i'm some "fetish" to them.

I think it goes both ways Ive had Asian girls talk to me like that because im white and mae me feel uncomfortable because I have had a girldfriend at the time.

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25 Feb 2014, 4:00 pm

1000Knives wrote:

I do find Asian girls pretty attractive. But, I find it hard to "strike up" conversations with them in public places.

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25 Feb 2014, 4:08 pm

Here is the PERFECT line to use:

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25 Feb 2014, 8:24 pm

Alyoshka wrote:

I feel uncomfortable when a lot of white people talk to me as an asian girl because I don't want them to only communicate to me because i'm some "fetish" to them.

AspieOtaku wrote:

I think it goes both ways Ive had Asian girls talk to me like that because im white and mae me feel uncomfortable because I have had a girldfriend at the time.

I've never understood why people behave like this. Once in college I noticed some older guys, who probably weren't associated with the university, taking pics of some Asian girls using their phones. It was very peculiar. Then again, the college campus was likely the only place you would see Asians/people of Asian descent in the immediate area and suffice to say, it didn't seem like these guys have ever been elsewhere.

I would imagine the part of problem is being invested in the physical attraction without being invested in knowing the person.

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26 Feb 2014, 8:38 pm

Umm.....You might want to look at Number 1 on the list...

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rw7Yp2kJwzM[/youtube]

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28 Feb 2014, 1:50 am

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWb_i56MhHs[/youtube]WHere i live whenever i go to Cupertino I usually get this kind of reaction from the local ladies! Cupertinos demographics are over 70% Asian!

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06 Mar 2014, 6:35 pm

I would love to find a group or place near me where I can talk to beautiful Asian women. While I personally find myself to be more attracted to Japanese women because they can be so beautiful. But as for what is in their hearts I won't know until I get to know them. Then there are some things that I like about their culture like how they are family oriented and come together in a crisis. Of course the whole bathing together is a nice thought.

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08 Mar 2014, 11:36 pm

Funny because I always found that asian women have made up the majority of the women I've hooked up with. I've actually found a few to be very staightforward that they liked me and would never act defensibe and uncomfortable around me the way white women do. I even had a short fling with a regional Misss Vietinam contestant. She tell me I was "funny" a few times though. :lol:
In short, you should just go talk to them.Its actually quite a bit easier when they don't speak english as their first language. I also think that there is such a difference cultureally that they really don't notice your [i]other differences. :wink:

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10 Mar 2014, 4:45 pm

Here ya go. :lol:

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31 Mar 2014, 3:55 pm

Here is some excellent news for you, if you're thinking about Japan.

http://en.rocketnews24.com/2012/09/21/w ... any-girls/

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31 Mar 2014, 5:26 pm

ArrantPariah wrote:

Here is some excellent news for you, if you're thinking about Japan.

http://en.rocketnews24.com/2012/09/21/w ... any-girls/

Already heard that. Doesn't help a guy who is still in tech school now does it? If I was sent to Japan for work, then ended up staying there for more work, that would be a different story.
Riding an El Camino in Japan with tools and machinery in the bed, waving to all the people I know.....

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