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05 Apr 2024, 9:42 am

And what was your response to that


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05 Apr 2024, 9:50 am

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And what was your response to that



I can’t remember it was back in 2014 after me not having worked/left college since 2010.

In my miserable entire life so far I have only worked 6 months



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05 Apr 2024, 9:50 am

But did it make you get a job


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05 Apr 2024, 9:51 am

Are you on any type of disability?



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05 Apr 2024, 9:53 am

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Are you on any type of disability?



Yes I am on disability benefits



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05 Apr 2024, 9:54 am

It's good that you get that then


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05 Apr 2024, 9:54 am

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But did it make you get a job



He made that comment a week before I started my new job (which my mom got for me)



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05 Apr 2024, 9:56 am

My last place of employment I was lumped together with a guy who had dyspraxia and brain damage. He behaved and spoke very abnormally and I felt really offended when I was put together with him.

Looking back that was ignorant and prejudiced of me yes



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05 Apr 2024, 9:56 am

Does your brother have a girlfriend


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05 Apr 2024, 9:57 am

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My last place of employment I was lumped together with a guy who had dyspraxia and brain damage. He behaved and spoke very abnormally and I felt really offended when I was put together with him.

Looking back that was ignorant and prejudiced of me yes


Yeah but at least you can see that now

I don't think it's too unusual to have those feelings though.


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05 Apr 2024, 9:57 am

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Does your brother have a girlfriend



He’s currently single at age 31 and has only had 1 proper girlfriend when he was 19/20. He did date a girl a year ago but she quickly ended things with him.



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05 Apr 2024, 9:58 am

babybird wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
My last place of employment I was lumped together with a guy who had dyspraxia and brain damage. He behaved and spoke very abnormally and I felt really offended when I was put together with him.

Looking back that was ignorant and prejudiced of me yes


Yeah but at least you can see that now



I suppose everyone in the office thought I was similar to that guy. I mean why else would my bosss lump me with him back in 2014?



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05 Apr 2024, 9:59 am

Yeah I know what you mean


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05 Apr 2024, 9:59 am

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Are you on any type of disability?



Yes I am on disability benefits

In my opinion, disability benefits should count as having a job, so any negative comments people make while you’re on it should be ignored.



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05 Apr 2024, 9:59 am

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babybird wrote:
Does your brother have a girlfriend



He’s currently single at age 31 and has only had 1 proper girlfriend when he was 19/20.


No sh*t


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05 Apr 2024, 10:01 am

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Jamesy wrote:
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Are you on any type of disability?



Yes I am on disability benefits

In my opinion, disability benefits should count as having a job, so any negative comments people make while you’re on it should be ignored.



I met at the pub last Sunday a group of associates who I suspect know a lot about my current lifestyle. SOME of them were unwelcoming to me