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05 Apr 2024, 10:28 am

After I was told to leave that day the chairman of the council stormed downstairs and had a go at the woman who asked me to leave



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05 Apr 2024, 10:29 am

Jamesy wrote:
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Was he just shouting "or what" at you randomly for no reason

I don't get it



He wasn’t shouting but he said “Or what” after saying a sentence I can’t really remember it was a long time ago

My parents remarked that on that day the council were rude to me but it actually led to me having a full time job there


I can't imagine what any of that could be about. Was there other people there with disabilities


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05 Apr 2024, 10:29 am

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Was he just shouting "or what" at you randomly for no reason

I don't get it



He wasn’t shouting but he said “Or what” after saying a sentence I can’t really remember it was a long time ago

My parents remarked that on that day the council were rude to me but it actually led to me having a full time job there


I can't imagine what any of that could be about. Was there other people there with disabilities



There was one guy there who had a disability (who I was paired together with). I did have an argument with my parents that morning before I went to do work experience there



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05 Apr 2024, 10:31 am

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After I was told to leave that day the chairman of the council stormed downstairs and had a go at the woman who asked me to leave


Did he. They must have all been gossiping about it


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05 Apr 2024, 10:32 am

My job centre advisor told me the council are good at employing people with “Long term health conditions”



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05 Apr 2024, 10:33 am

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After I was told to leave that day the chairman of the council stormed downstairs and had a go at the woman who asked me to leave


Did he. They must have all been gossiping about it



Well maybe she was trying to do the council a favour. I proved to be there most difficult employee to history in the 6 months I worked there



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05 Apr 2024, 10:34 am

I thought you was only there for a morning


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05 Apr 2024, 10:37 am

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I thought you was only there for a morning



Well the council gave me a full time contract job as an apology. I worked there from September 2014 to arpril 2015



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05 Apr 2024, 10:39 am

Ah right I get it now


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05 Apr 2024, 10:41 am

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Ah right I get it now



They sussed out I was not grateful for the job because I did not want to work



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05 Apr 2024, 10:43 am

Well folding envelopes isn't for everyone


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05 Apr 2024, 10:44 am

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Well folding envelopes isn't for everyone



The full time job I did was not folding envelopes it was working on the computer/sorting out files. I was not grateful for it basically and wanted them to let me go



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05 Apr 2024, 10:48 am

Oh well it worked out well in the end then


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05 Apr 2024, 10:48 am

The week after I was let go from my full time job in April 2015 my brother said to me “You did not know how lucky you were to have that job”



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05 Apr 2024, 10:48 am

He might have had a point to be fair


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05 Apr 2024, 10:49 am

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Oh well it worked out well in the end then



No it didn’t I was let go from the council only 6 months later