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06 Apr 2024, 8:30 am

I'm getting off mine but I am doing it under supervision and I am getting support for it.

Do you think your meds are working for you Jamesy


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06 Apr 2024, 8:35 am

babybird wrote:
I'm getting off mine but I am doing it under supervision and I am getting support for it.

Do you think your meds are working for you Jamesy



Yeah there helping with my ocd/self harming but still they do not have the relaxing feeling they did in 2018 when I first started taking them.

Me feeling anxious might be because I drink lager on the weekends



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06 Apr 2024, 8:37 am

In general I think OCD decreases as you get older



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06 Apr 2024, 8:41 am

I was in the smoking area at the pub last night and there was this table with a large group of people. The lady in the group said to me "Why don't you hang out over there because this table is for pre pubelescent children"



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06 Apr 2024, 8:42 am

Jamesy wrote:
babybird wrote:
I'm getting off mine but I am doing it under supervision and I am getting support for it.

Do you think your meds are working for you Jamesy



Yeah there helping with my ocd/self harming but still they do not have the relaxing feeling they did in 2018 when I first started taking them.

Me feeling anxious might be because I drink lager on the weekends


Dies your anxiety follow a pattern. Does it happen more at certain times or is it all the time


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06 Apr 2024, 8:43 am

Jamesy wrote:
In general I think OCD decreases as you get older


Do you think. I've never really suffered with ocd personally.


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06 Apr 2024, 8:44 am

was in the smoking area at the pub last night and there was this table with a large group of people. The lady in the group said to me "Why don't you hang out over there because this table is for pre pubelescent children"



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06 Apr 2024, 8:44 am

Jamesy wrote:
I was in the smoking area at the pub last night and there was this table with a large group of people. The lady in the group said to me "Why don't you hang out over there because this table is for pre pubelescent children"


I think that if she was a lady she wouldn't have spoken to you that way.

What was your response


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06 Apr 2024, 8:47 am

babybird wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
I was in the smoking area at the pub last night and there was this table with a large group of people. The lady in the group said to me "Why don't you hang out over there because this table is for pre pubelescent children"


I think that if she was a lady she wouldn't have spoken to you that way.

What was your response



I just ignored her

In 2021 I said to this woman at the pub who is MY AGE " Age I'd just a number" and she responded to me "Kiddy fiddler"



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06 Apr 2024, 8:52 am

I wonder why she might have said that

I've heard people say that loads of times but that wouldn't be the first response I would make


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06 Apr 2024, 8:59 am

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I wonder why she might have said that

I've heard people say that loads of times but that wouldn't be the first response I would make



One of her relatives was autistic apparently. She should know better than



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06 Apr 2024, 9:00 am

Maybe the kiddy fiddler accusation was based on a rumour? Jamesy has said he has a reputation in some pubs, maybe people have started making things up about him?



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06 Apr 2024, 9:01 am

Yeah that's s**t


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06 Apr 2024, 9:02 am

It's weird how people just create toxic stories about people


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06 Apr 2024, 9:16 am

I said this before on Halloween 2021 I was walking to the dance floor of my local bar and this young guy pointed his finger at me shouting “Pedophile”



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06 Apr 2024, 9:24 am

Yeah that's really bad

Do you know these people at the pub; are they friendly towards you one minute and then the next they're not friendly?


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