Can a women make themselfs deeper?

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I was wondering if a woman can make themselfs deeper in there vagina? Because I have a depth of about 4 inches to a half, and my boyfriend is around 6 inches, And I was wondering if it's possible for a woman to be able to make herself deeper. (like streatching it out with a toy) Or even if it's possible for the part to even streach at all?

stretching? no don't think so. that would mean that your uterus would be pushed up but it has nowhere to go...

Yes 'dilators'. You should probably talk to your doctor though. There is a condition were the Eturus is sealed shut though you would most likely know if you had this by now.

she isn't trying to make it wider shes trying to make it longer

I think you should see a GYN about it...if you're not of standard length he/she would certainly see that, and if there's anything to be done about it he/she should be able to tell you what.

I wouldn't mess with it myself. I think Abram is right - you could injure yourself in there if you start trying to stretch yourself out without seeing a Dr. first.

I do think it is possible to stretch the lenght of your vajayjay considering the notion that many women push babies out of theirs. The tissue is purposely designed to stretch to accomidate this so in theory, vaginal stretching would be possible.
However, I agree with everyone in saying you're best off consulting with your OGBYN before you try anything. Also, if it's the dept of penetration you're worried about when making love to your boyfriend, there are several positions you can try out to ease things along.

Hope this helps!

Oh, also look up Vaginaoplasty on Wikipedia.

The pevic muscles relax when aroused giving more space and depth. So maybe she isn't aroused enough. 3-5 inches is actually average for the vagina unaroused.

There are a couple misconceptions many folks have about that area.

The cervix, the opening to the uterus which feels like a rounded nub like the end of your nose, should never be opened other than by a doctor during a medical procedure or by a baby coming out. Often, when you feel you're too shallow inside, it's because the man's penis is hitting against your cervix (which does have nerves and hurts.) If this is the case, try different positions.

A woman's cervix may vary in location (partly depending on the time of month) so different positions will change the effect. My husband, when erect is between 9 and 10 inches, and one of his tricks is to hold the base of his penis with his fingers, to control how much is actually entering, while still getting stimulated. I know that at some times of the month, "doggy style" is painful, while other times, it's fine. You can also try woman on top position, which can help you guide and control the intensity and rhythm and depth.

Here's a good site on the topic: http://www.coolnurse.com/vagina.htm
Depending on your body, the back wall of the vagina that extends a bit beyond the cervix can provide some extra stretch when aroused, to accomodate a longer penis. That works better if your bowels and bladder are empty. Using the bathroom before (and urinating again after) can help increase your comfort. Also, make sure you and/or your boyfriend make sure you're fully aroused, in order to provide the greatest lubrication and stretchiness. Playing with toys such as a vibrator can help with getting familiar with your body and with how much you can take, but also, help with learning to relax and get properly aroused for intercourse. (It actually can sometimes be difficult for some of us to learn this.)

If you are still having trouble (or especially if you're having pain) during intercourse after trying various positions and such, talk to your gynecologist. Pain during intercourse can sometimes be a symptom of other things going on.