Why can’t people leave me alone about my sex life?

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I’m an adult and if I chose to have sex in cars or random people then it’s my choice! I shouldn’t be lectured that I’m putting myself in a dangerous situation because I’m competent enough to make decisions and don’t deserve to be lectured like I’m mentally challenged. I literally saw a question on another forum about the riskiest place they had sex before and one person said in the back seat of their car in a busy parking lot. If people I know knew I was doing that they would lecture me and say it’s “wrong” Why aren’t they lecturing anyone else that has sex like that? Lots of people admit that they have sex in cars and with random people so don’t think I’m the only one. What are your thoughts?

This has been discussed in other boards here on WP, and frankly this post should be in Adult Discussion.

As for this: many folk here have provided responses to similar questions you've asked here. I'm wondering if those answers have been inadequate? What type of responses are you looking to get from us?

I wanted to know what rights I have about my sexual autonomy. I asked a completely different question what do you think?

Respectfully, there's four different threads in Adult Discussion asking a different variant of this question, most of which have reasonable answers and sound responses. You've also mentioned being in a conservatorship, which might limit your freedom to a degree, but I don't know where you reside and what the specifics of your conservatorship would be.

I will also add that this might be something to discuss irl with your folks and therapist, because it's definitely affecting you on a level they might not be aware of. We're not going to be able to provide much feedback and assistance because of the lack of information.

My guardianship isn’t restricting my sex life so don’t blame it on that.

This is my point: we don't know what your guardianship does entail. We can't begin to give advice without knowing the nitty gritty, and doing this online isn't particularly safe. The internet is forever and all that.

There are some initial impressions I've gotten from the posts you have made, but to be honest, I'm not entirely sure you would accept what I have to say, and I'm not sure if what I would have to share would be entirely accurate, because I am lacking necessary context.

It might be a better idea to log off for a bit and find another means of distraction instead of stoking your frustration.