The last poll question WAS going to be "I'm still a student, and expect to get a skilled job". Unfortunately, it turns out that field wasn't put in the poll. At least things aren't QUITE as bad as some indicated.
And YEAH, there have been times I have even RISKED MY JOB because of some misplaced sense of honor, etc.... At my current job, I couldn't get a certain position because they didn't think I was good with people. The person in that job, however, is not doing well at all. If I was in that position, I bet 30% more would have been done, etc.... But I don't push him hard. YEAH, if I wasn't there, he probably would have done 30% less than he is now. I also don't talk about it to others. 8-(
Anyway, I got into things like that, because I used to be TOO blunt and honest. Unfortunately, todays society doesn't accept such things. I really had to get rid of that. I remember talking to my 6th grade teacher (11 YO) in a blunt manner. HECK, I even said some things to my last employer that were blunt. But it seems like each year I was less blunt. TODAY? Well, on friday I interviewed a person for 20 minutes and, because I am HORRIBLE at terminating conversations, may have spoken for another 20 minutes. After the first question I should have said FORGET IT! The LAST question was the ONLY one he got PARTIALLY right. THAT is because he remembered a concept he had to have drumed into him for a specialty he studied in college, and it covered this a little! Oh yeah, what about the OTHER questions? He didn't even really ATTEMPT to answer them. OK, he answered ONE other, but it was wrong also.
My attitude USED to be WHO CARES, this is the way I am and I like it. NOW, my attempt is to be as honest as possible. I won't lie even to sell, but on some things I may not call attention to negatives.
Steve