Cant make friends?

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When i try getting into a convosation with someone i asked them to help me on something (because they like this stuff to) And he told me no and i asked him why and he said because.
So i thought maybe he was mad at me or didnt like me he says he is not mad but dosent want to help me out because he is not in the mood. But he is never in the mood. Is he makeing it up? And is mad at me? I asked for help on a vidoe game only and it was not alot.
But im not very talkadive and he knows i have autism....Why is he saying no all the time?

Other people:
When i make friends with other people they will talk to me but over time when i go silent because im not sure how to jump into the convostion anymore because i got lost and comfused and start back up i can tell they will tey and egnore me and leve me out of avreything there talking about.
The only person who knows this is my best friend and when it happends she jumps in and helps.
I have seen people (NOT her) But others talk behind my back and say im annoying i understood ii could get like that when i was younger. but now im older im not the same and people still say it.
Keep in mind this problem is online but i have ran into things close to this problem ofline to.
But ofline people tend to try and block what i do out to not be rude and give me strange looks.
but i got a online problem and what i just said is it help! And i know this person well btw because i go on mic with them: Mic is like a phone but on the computer you can talk to them with it.

In the first case, there may be many reasons, but don't feel too bad if they keep saying no, they may just have things to do or they don't feel like helping at that particular time. It's a little annoying when they don't give a reason though.

In the second case, if they're purposely ignoring you, are you sure you should call them friends? A real friend wouldn't do that.

Yes.

My best friend helps me out on this but the other guy no hes an ass :/ And im getting sick of it.

So that's the person you mentioned first, right?
In any case, if they're being a complete ass to you, what's the point of trying? If you're making an effort and they aren't, then it seems that they're not interested and not worth your time and effort.

The guy yes hes an ass my best friend isnt.
The guy im not even sure how to egnore him -.-; but honestly im over it.